Finally at a spot in my life where I can start a chapter of unlimited success. I have outgrown the fishbowl my life is about to go into a never ending season of fruitfulness.
If you felt any kind of peak or golden era in your 20s it means you likely had a solid upbringing, psychologically stable parents etc and thatβs mostly luck of the draw. Real childhood trauma mfers often have a challenging or lacklustre 20s, and usually donβt hit stride until 28+
@GhostFreeOr1056 Nigga probably hit hella bad bitches but one day yβall young niggas gone learn a woman who actually brings value to your life is better.
Always choose clean pain over dirty pain.
Clean pain is the pain of telling the truth. The pain of leaving. The pain of disappointing someone. The pain of starting. The pain of being bad at something new. The pain of saving money instead of buying the thing. The pain of going to bed while the party continues. The pain of facing the blank page.
Dirty pain is the pain of avoiding clean pain. The pain of staying too long. The pain of lying. The pain of living above your means. The pain of being known inaccurately. The pain of watching your life shrink around a fear you refuse to face. The pain of managing the consequences of cowardice.
Clean pain is often sharp and brief, dirty pain is dull and chronic.
Self-respect is paying the clean cost early.
Disappear to build yourself in private. Nobody cares. Nobody. Avoid people who lower your vibe. And never chase people. Play dumb if you have to, to protect your energy. Trust your gut. Be patient with yourself. Limit your access. Trust me, once you decide you want a good life, people appear, doors open, and miracles light up your life. Sometimes... growth is learning to be alone.