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[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@Schtal2 Patriarchy facilitates hypergamous arrangements more than egalitarian societies do.
Both models represent marital arrangements under patriarchy, since polygyny is also driven by female choice suppression.

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

Nope

[Schtal @Schtal2]

Feminism is what created the hypergamous dating hellscape.

Patriarchy is what will fix it.

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@Parthenogenics Link? 🧐🧐

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@Beobachter5764 Oh, sorry

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

🦕

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

Deja de vivir dentro de una petición de principio challenge

Level: impossible

[maximus @nuance_enjoyer]

Correlations between observer rated attractiveness and baseline social anxiety, depression, eating disorders, and life satisfaction are tiny at best. Self-perceived attractiveness has a stronger effect. It's all in your head, bro.
https://t.co/Di8Ft6rvXV

[maximus @nuance_enjoyer]

Sorry but this is a popular myth. Longitudinal research shows that if anything, changes in mental health influence physical appearance rather than the reverse. Roald Dahl got it right.

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@Tmp20432 @greenerycode You see how the only acceptable answer to give to incels is to tell them they are ugly and that they should improve their looks?
No, autistic people lifetime partners are better predicted by their social life (going outside), not their looks.

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@KazuyaProta @milkrapist @itstuff48 So you would say that most men that are members of incel communities and call themselves incels aren't real incels, except for the very tiny percentage that dies without knowing a woman?

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@KazuyaProta @milkrapist @itstuff48 If incel is a man that never gets a partner, then your premise that incels can't abuse their partners is unfalsifiable.
But that also makes most incels "not true incels" since it's really rare for men to absolutely never have any partner till dead.

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@KazuyaProta @milkrapist @itstuff48 You are begging the question.
https://t.co/fMHr2FsAAP

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@JuS1aWeSoMeGuY @itstuff48 @KazuyaProta This is why "incels aren't abusive" is misleading.
Once they do manage to date a woman, which happens 98% of the time for men under 30 years old, they 'were never incels'.
So you can't state that, yes, some incels have abused their partners.

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@ILuvHiroiKikuri @greenerycode There's a paper already on that.

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@ILuvHiroiKikuri @greenerycode So, the problem is that they don't go outside, but it is also wrong if people tell them to go outside.

What is the correct approach then?

https://t.co/7IP4e9DUsq

[sam @greenerycode]

its so interesting that women really really believe this kind of guys’ problem is his standards are too high. this kind of guy does not interact with women, he does not go out, he does not get matches on the apps. he does not even have the opportunity to be “picky”

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@Tmp20432 @greenerycode I have been harassed for weeks by incels for saying that incels have autistic overrepresentation.
Make it make sense.

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@greenerycode Your concern is useless.

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@milkrapist @itstuff48 @KazuyaProta If a virgin/celibate man gets a partner, people like you jump to say "they aren't incels".
It becomes circular, only men with partners can abuse them, and the existence of former incels isn't conceived.
Nobody has measured how many of them are violent.
https://t.co/kR3cc6TxvO

[MJ @JuS1aWeSoMeGuY]

@Cheldubiduba @itstuff48 @KazuyaProta If someone dated them they are by definition, not an incel

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@milkrapist @itstuff48 @KazuyaProta William Costello also found they see women and feminists as enemies.
"Incel violence" is counted as long as the attackers have a link to their shared ideology.
There's no literature on virgin/celibate men's violence against women.

[Chel @Cheldubiduba]

@CathyReisenwitz Polygyny is compulsory and driven by patriarchal norms.
The more freedom women have, the less polygyny there is in a society.
https://t.co/g7zcAqlQmP