If you want to marry a submissive woman who will respect you,
Marry a woman from communities we consider "hardship communities"
• Maasai
• Turkana
• Borana
• Somali
• Giriama
• Taita
• Pokot
• Tugen
• Teso
Especially if they grew up in their families.
They have lived in situations that call for patience and humility.
No matter how tough your marriage becomes, they will endure everything.
They will remain respectful and submissive.
They are good women.
I didn't say you marry them from the city. The Gilbey Dragons will stress you for nothing.
Get them from their villages.
Remember, you are marrying a mother of your children, a woman whom you will live with for the rest of your life.
Don't gamble.
Best way to make a woman fall deeper in love with you is not by making her happy
it's by making her sad, Not by being weak but by dominance, Nonchalance & being difficult to deal with
Women love troubles and headaches,peace is boring. she will always complain but don't stop
As a married man,
Even if you want to cheat, you should be seen with women that even your Co-cheaters will still respect you for.
Not hanging out with all those shepeteri girls.
So that even if your wife catches you, she'll be angry, but she'll consider herself lucky.
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CAN YOU SECRETLY READ ANYONE'S MIND?
1. Status - Look at their shoes.
2. Discipline - Look at their nails.
3. Background - Notice how they sit.
4. Intentions - Watch their eyes.
5. Personality - Observe how they laugh.
6. Confidence - See how they walk.
7. Loyalty - Notice where they look.
8. Maturity - Watch how they argue.
9. Respect - See how they treat people who can't help them.
The obvious way to build confidence is to succeed at hard things.
The less obvious way to build confidence is to keep the promises you make to yourself when nobody is watching.
The more consistently you do what you said you would, the less you need anyone else to believe in you.
You're free to argue this, but let me say it.
The best marriage to have as a man is a marriage where:
1. You're more educated and enlightened than your wife.
2. You're richer than your wife.
3. You're older than your wife.
4. Your wife is not from a family that depends on you for their survival.
5. Your wife is not religious and seldom keeps friends.
6. Your wife is a housewife or works where she still has time to be a present mother.
7. Your wife is from a stable home where the parents are still together, but it's not her mother that is the main provider or the one that calls the shot.
8. All her sisters (especially elder sisters) are married.
9. She spends time to teach the children and takes pride in their achievement.
10. She doesn't deprive you of sex and makes sure that her vagina and home is always clean for you.
11. She doesn't have an ex or she doesn't keep in touch with her exes.
12. She doesn't enable you as her husband and wishes to push you further than she has gotten to.
13. She puts you on your toes and you cannot afford to fail her because of the value that she brings to your life.
14. She knows that you have cheated on her, but turns a blind eye, as long as you're not rubbing it on her face and you put your family first in all thy doings.
15. She knows who you are, but will never use your secrets against you. And even if the marriage doesn't work out, she'll always speak good of you because she believes and trusts that you'll always speak good of her.
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The person you will be in 10 years is being built by the choices you make right now. The money you did not invest. The education you postponed. The property you let go without buying. The debt you chose to ignore. We live the consequences of our past actions and daily decisions. Listen to your instincts.
You're 27, you go dey live with man and you dey wake up by 9am.
That's why many of them are running away from cohabition.
Lazy, always on tik tok.
And you say that you want to become a wife and mother.
My young teenage daughter wakes up by 5am, including weekends.
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Modern parents are raising self-entitled swamp rats.
• They buy them smartphones at an early age
• Dance with them in TikTok videos
• Reward them when they throw tantrums
• Avoid punishing them
• Employ housemaids to carry out house tasks as children sit and play in the house
These children can't wash their clothes, cook a simple meal, or clean the table after a meal.
They even insult housemaids.
Some even talk back to their parents.
These are the children who grow to become the idiots you see saying, "children need privacy."
Which privacy?
The results of a poorly raised child are so many awkward and displeasing teenagers and young adults on X insulting people and disrespecting order.
Children need strict supervision and instant punishment.
Otherwise, the consequences will be catastrophic.
Alafu jomba,
Remember this:
When you get a house, you'll want a bigger one.
When you get a a demio ya Kshs. 500k, you'll want a Kshs Toyota Axio ya 1.5 Million
When you hit Kshs 100k in savings, You'll want Kshs. 1 Million.
It never ends so enjoy the ride and have some fun along the way.
Learn to make yourself happy!
Some things You must stop blaming satan. Satan is not going around schools burning dormitories. These dormitories are being burnt by students. I say so because once upon a time I was a highschool student and I saw this transpire in real time. And this should mean something but you’re all ignorant to see. These children are rebelling. It is a call for help. And these schools will never stop being burnt unless something is changed
You have taken your children and thrown them in boarding schools like you’re punishing them. Look at the beds they sleep on,squeezed Tripple deckers. Sleeping at 10pm,waking up at 4am. To study. Ni nini hii inasomewa hivi? The chinese,the koreans dont even study this much and we cant achieve 20.% of what they have. Your children are suffering. Drinking porridge from expired maize for breakfast,Two loaves and dirty tea at 11am,Uncooked Githeri for lunch full of weavils,and uncooked ugali and Barely sliced sukumas for supper
What kind of life is this you’re giving your children. They are in prison,literally. They’re mentally broken. They miss their parents,they miss their homes,and they miss freedom. Remember this are children. If there is anyone to blame it is you the parents. It is you who have pressured these Teachers and Management to ‘rise the school meanscore’ because you’re obsessed with reputations.
Stop blaming satan for your failures. Boarding schools must be modified to friendlier learning institutions and not lockdown prisons whereby everyday students wake up regretting their lives.
Or They continue to burn these schools and some of your children will unfortunately perish in the chaos. Stop blaming satan! I am her advocate on this one