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[Dera Codes 👨‍💻 ❤️🪖 @ChiDeraCollins_]

Don’t envy the grace you know nothing about ‼️‼️

[Oku @oku_yungx]

You are married now but you won’t hit the gym even when you have the chance to. Once you Divorce now, you go turn Gym babe.

Idiot.

[SCOREpion 🦂⚽🔥 @Hakeem_Onitolo]

She said, “Money is not everything to women; what matters is seeing that our man is doing something.” The same woman still said, “But I will not do 50/50 sharing with him.” LOL.

The above and other un-tallying statements aside, she lost me at “some of us ehn, we get heart of gold.” That mindset is my problem with women: they all think they are good people. That delusional statement resonated so much that the other woman stood up to hug her.

This mindset is why many women think they “suffered” with a man because they BOTH had little or no money while they were together. More often than not, the man had more and funded most of it, yet it was the woman that “suffered” with him.

“I was with him when he had nothing,” but he had and contributed more than you did. LOL.

It is also why none of them are ever the problem—their exes always are, as if we do not see how some women behave in real life.

Why do you think women will wrong you and still expect you to apologize? Because they believe they are perfect and can do no wrong.

“Man bad, woman good” is an ideology allowed to go on too long, so these women genuinely believe they are good by default.

We men must collectively ensure women know they are not automatically good because they think so, but by actually being good.

“Some of us get heart of gold… I will support him” - but “I will not do 50/50 sharing with him.” LOL.

[Gᴀғғᴇʀ ☕ @JuiceGaffer]

There's no social event women haven't monetize

Dates, Relationship, Sex, Periods, Pregnancy, Baby Shower, Valentine's Day, Easter Day, Birthday, Girlfriend's day, Christmas Day...

It's so bad, if a man compliments the average Nigerian woman on her looks she's expecting money

[Lauren Chen @TheLaurenChen]

gentle reminder that the woman who cooks and cleans for her family is sacrificing nothing and would still have to cook and clean without a family.

[Dr Scarface📍🩺 @king_pearxe]

God bless the man who went to shield him from this embarrassment

[KING CHIDI @guzu_p]

If I was dating a whore and someone is often tweeting about the negativity of settling for a non virgin, i too won't support his tweets.

So I can relate and i perfectly understand you.

[KING CHIDI @guzu_p]

There's a reason you'll never hear a woman say:

"My husband doesn't like making money. It's not his thing to make money but I love making money. I enjoy making money while he enjoys eating my money."

Because women are logical beings when it comes to relationships. They won't settle for a man who won't fulfill his financial responsibility as a husband.

They hold you to your traditional role as a husband which is to provide whereas we have men playing a role of a husband and a wife in their home by providing and still cooking for their wives.

A man will become successful, a rich and popular artist, and manage to be amongst the top 1% of men just to settle for a woman who doesn't like cooking for him. While he's busy cooking for his wife in the kitchen, she's in the parlor watching TV.

A woman who cooked for her exes is talking about not liking to cook for her husband and the ekuku is saying

"What works for you will be different from somebody else"

She even threatened him to "tread carefully" because he knows what she'll do to him if madam vex.

At the end of the day, you can't blame these women because weak men are the ones enabling them.

Even the rich celebrities don't rate themselves. Now, imagine how less the average Nigerian man sees himself?

Nigerian men too useless.

[STUNNER @Cr7Godbrand]

If domestic responsibilities are not “women’s work,” then financial responsibilities should not automatically be considered “men’s work” either.

Let’s be consistent. If we want to break gender norms, then we should break all of them not just the ones that benefit one side. Split everything 50-50.

[Dera Codes 👨‍💻 ❤️🪖 @ChiDeraCollins_]

@iFlex_JayD @omoyebraids @get_screenshot dark

[KING CHIDI @guzu_p]

I never knew women actually slapped men until I came on social media. Till date, I still believe a woman slapping me will forever remain a myth because I have never experienced it personally.

The only woman apart from my mother who has ever slapped me was my senior sister. Till date, she's still wearing braces. Now, imagine what I would do to a woman who isn't related to me by blood?

You must have fucked up at some point or giving the wrong energy for a woman who knows you're stronger than her, taller than her, and double her size to raise her hands to slap you.

[Omoye✨🫶 @omoyebraids]

There’s a tribe with the highest number of feminists, and that same tribe has the highest number of paternity fraud cases.
That same tribe also has the highest number of women maltreating their wards.

Guess the tribe and win 10k

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Adam's parents sent him to school. After graduation, he started hustling and building himself. You didn't rate him when he was struggling. After he has made it, you rate him as high value snd want to date him to leverage on his financial capital.

Your own parents sent you to school. After graduation, you start claiming high value because you have one small idea you are waiting for man to fund. No go find eba to warm.

[pikachu @____testimony]

No matter how decent you wan be…

If your decency don reach the level wey you no like sex, abeg, if I ask you out, no gree for me. 😂🙏

[ThatBlessedGirl @BlessedGirl001]

To Whoever Cares to Read...

I have counseled lots of singles and married couples on This app and on whatsapp. this blocking thing is common among lots of newly weds and those in a serious relationship. I really do not understand the concept of blocking your partner just because you both had quarreled few times. It is still communication with the right intention that will solve the issue. What i don't and will never comprehend is when you now bring it on the internet. It pains me the reader than you the poster.

I know i am h@ted on this app for speaking uncomfortable truth, however, I am not a Perfect Wife, neither am I a perfect human. I have my own flaws, I make mistakes, but there's one thing I will never do, is humiliate my husband on the internet for vain attention or cruise or whatever the case may be. Whatever misunderstanding we had and settled cannot find its way on this app.

I've seen my parent quarrel, but I have never seen my mum gossip her husband to anybody not even her close friend. (This were times when there was no internet). I learnt this act from my mum. You can go through my TL you will never spot me talk down against my husband. Netheir does he bring me up as a case study to his friends.

All I'm saying in essence is mind what you put here. You are a direct reflection of your partner. When you misbehave online, it rubs up on your partner especially if your partner is a public figure, people will call him a weak man because of the things you post.

Your marriage is personal. How you chose to tolerate and handle each other is at your call. Your marriage is peculiar to you. However, your marriage is not a public thing for cruise cos it affects that partner more that it affects you the poster.

Thanks for reading 📚 📖 this far.

[Courtney Conover @CourtneyLC80]

It is abuse in romantic relationships because you made the social contract to enter into a romantic relationship. You didn't choose a roommate or a pet. So yeah, sex is required. Leave him immediately if you don't want to fuck him. Don't be a cunt.

[Adika @Adikastakes]

I hate the fact that once you question a Nigerian’s intellect their automatic response is to start comparing how much money they have to you. So because you’re rich you think you can’t be stupid?

[Dera Codes 👨‍💻 ❤️🪖 @ChiDeraCollins_]

@eguonowhispers @screenshotter all dark

[Hlovo @hlovo_]

“I cook for my husband”= You’re a slave

“We split the bills”= Your husband is useless

“I spoil my wife”= You’re a simp

“I dress modestly”= You’re in an abusive marriage

“My wife and I make decisions together”= You’re not a real man

“I can’t do random nights out because I’m married” = You’re husband/wife is controlling

“My wife earns more than me”= You’re a useless leech

“My husband is the breadwinner”= You have no say since you bring nothing to the table

“I don’t need a male/female bestie because I’m married”= Your partner is insecure

This is how some of you see the world 😂

Y’all are far too pathetic and miserable to really understand what goes into making a marriage successful. Happy couples should keep it to themselves because you guys will find a fault in everything they do.

[TerryGiant @TerryGiant97]

The phrase "for a man" exposes the entire rot. It's your child too lol. If the relationship ends tomorrow, you'll fight for 100% custody because it's "your"baby but while the bills are due, it's a service you performed "for him". The hypocrisy is wild

[Man of Letters. @Letter_to_Jack]

Let me share a hack: If the locked phone is more than 3yrs old (from production date), you can easily unlock it without paying a kobo.

Go to the website of the carrier it’s locked on, look for “unlock device”, enter your IMEI, and wait for 72hours.

Your phone will be unlocked.