ChiDon

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@christ_bla36952 @Wayneybba @CocoAfrica69 Ok na 😂

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@the_ceo99 @Wizarab10 What are you saying?

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@Ezigbonwa_ @Wizarab10 What are you saying?

You said a lot without saying anything. You should advice him to protect himself by having safe sex and also avoid impregnating a girl.

I don't know how some of you expect an adult to go years without sex when it's obvious that it's not possible.

[Gia Macool @GiaMMacool]

I’ve been with my husband since 2000, so I’ve been married long enough to say this:

Your husband can’t read your mind. 

If you expect him to “just know” and your feelings get hurt, you’re the one with the problem, not him. 

Second, a man who feels respected and knows he has a ride-or-die woman by his side will literally lay down his life for her. 

Men thrive where they feel honored, appreciated, and believed in.

A husband who feels constantly disrespected and criticized will eventually stop trying. 

So if you’re always saying, “My husband isn’t consistent,” or “He keeps dropping the ball,” ask yourself if he feels respected in his own home.

I’ve watched this happen over and over again, and it’s avoidable.

Marriage is about what you are planting every single day. 

Every word, 

every reaction, 

every act of kindness or criticism is a seed. 

Water the seeds you want to grow.

Lastly, the environment in your home is largely dependent on the wife 

That doesn’t mean your husband isn’t responsible for his own actions. 

It means a woman has incredible influence over her home. 

The way she speaks to her husband, honors him, and responds to him in the small moments is powerful.

Many women think that’s oppression but it’s actually true influence. 

And when we understand that, it becomes empowerment because we realize our daily choices have the power to shape our marriage.

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@GiaMMacool This is words on Marble 💯

You said it all, absolute truth 👍

[Alex Onyia @winexviv]

We have been invited to Singapore for 2027. We will challenge their best students in Maths.

The winners of the 2027 South East Maths Olympiad will challenge the best in Singapore in 2027. 56 other countries will join too.

I like how the world is now taking an interest in our children.

I am benchmarking our education against that of Singapore, Finland, Shanghai, China, Canada, and the US.

This is how we can move from being a third-world country to a first-world country.

The future is looking exciting.

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@Wayneybba @CocoAfrica69 And you're living on the land acquire by them?

Dey play 😂

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@ABUJAPLUG You're not serious!

Well, some people needs to go through something to learn a lesson

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@_NelsonNosa @instablog9ja Mr man, I don't know your age.

Please, kindly state your age let me know the angle to approach you with

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@_NelsonNosa @instablog9ja I don't know the kind of home you grew up in.
As a family man, you shouldn't stay outside till 2am without justifiable circumstances. Your safety and that of a woman and your child (children) at at home is very important.

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@El_sa0000 @Prezain_LJ Story 😁

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@Lifechief_ @HerbalistChief You said a lot without saying anything

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@HerbalistChief Chief, can one boil it with water and also stuff in a bottle with hot?

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@im_Kolins Happy birthday man 🎂

[Rinu Oduala 🔥🔫 @SavvyRinu]

A dead woman was found in the house of a Minister in Nigeria. David Umahi who Tinubu appointed and he is yet to be arrested.

Think of a dead body found in the house of a poor man in this country. What would happen?

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@jon_d_doe @TheChuksO Congratulations man 🤝

[Everest @novieverest]

Over 50 people were massacred in Benue State.
The media never reported it.
That's Tinubu's master plan.

[Ghost Writer ✍️ @Prezain_LJ]

I have been busy, so I bookmarked this to come back to later.

I'm genuinely curious. How is the child a gift to the husband? This isn't just about Temi. Many women, if not most, seem to think this way too, and I honestly don't understand it.

Most of the time, a man dies before his wife because men are usually older and generally face more stress and risk. This means that the long-term benefits of having children, especially after they become adults, are often enjoyed more by the woman. Children also tend to be more affectionate toward their mothers because of the nurturing role women typically play, and this often translates into doing more for their mothers later in life.

There are countless songs by artistes talking about making it in life so they can buy things for their mothers. I can hardly think of any that say the same about fathers. We often hear, "The hustle is for mama." Look at how Mother's Day is celebrated with so much enthusiasm, while Father's Day barely receives the same level of attention. Mothers go for omugwo after the birth of grandchildren; fathers generally don't. In real life, if children do one thing for their father, chances are they have done ten for their mother.

Some people argue that the children bear the man's surname. But are the children identified only with the man? When people see a woman, don't they also ask, "How are your children doing?" If you remove marriage from the equation, women still desire to have children. For single mothers who have children outside marriage, whose gift are those children? The truth is that children are gifts to everyone. As a woman, you are not doing a man a favor by having children. You need them just as much as he does.

That is why when a woman repeatedly gets her period despite trying to conceive with her husband, it is often met with disappointment and tears. Every woman wants to be a mother, first and foremost, for herself. If children are simply gifts to men, then why do we have so many cases of paternity fraud today? If children benefit only men, why do many women refuse to marry men who are infertile?

We really need to put this narrative to rest. Look at female celebrities who are unmarried but choose sperm donors or other means to have children. Did they do that simply to "gift" a man a child? Think about Hannah in the Bible. She wept bitterly and carried deep sorrow because she couldn't conceive. Was she grieving because she wanted to give her husband a child, or because she desperately wanted to become a mother herself?

Women want children for themselves, just as men do. In many respects, having children arguably benefits women even more than men. Presenting children as though they are gifts that women give to men ignores the fact that motherhood is also one of the deepest desires many women have for themselves.

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

Relax, Tinubu is fixing Nigeria

[Abu Amir @SadiqMaunde]

Tinubu promised to fix electricity in 4yrs, after four years, he took the presidential villa off the national grid instead.

Tinubu promised to give free education, he increased WAEC & NECO fees instead.

Relax, Tinubu is fixing Nigeria.

[ChiDon @ChiDon_101]

@storyrebuilt @lowestleo You have said a lot and ended up saying nothing.