Meaningful talks are important but you don't have to seek it all the time with your loved ones. You can also have random talks, premium gists, play games, eat together. Just enjoy your time with each other.
Be intentional about it.
These moments stay with them forever.
I Bought my first car in 2024
I Bought a plot of land in Jos
I Bought another in Port Harcourt
I Started Saving as an adult in 2024
I built my pig farm, & established in 2025
A single emergency: My Mom’s illness in 2026, made me sold & cleared everything, including my Savings‼️⚠️
This is LIFE in Nigeria.
You can struggle to build your life as a young person, without government support, but a single emergency can have everything crash, right before your eyes.
You will start life all over again, without support!
All because we don't have a Government‼️
When you see me put in extra efforts to sensitize people on voter registration & participation,
I am simply pushing for the installation of a people-oriented leader, who would establish a functional system/country that benefits and supports all Nigerians.
I am a VICTIM of NIGERIA⚠️
As an only son, who lost his father & 7 other family members to insecurity,
Family members who would have been a support system
Imagine pushing through life alone to attain a certain milestone, only to crash back to square one!😪
Nigeria has happened to me in ways you can't imagine, so I'm making efforts to see that it doesn't happen to others
PETER OBI will build a NIGERIA that supports you, not one that impoverishes you & feeds you bread crumbs.
Our only chance at having a decent FUTURE as Nigerian youths, is a PETER OBI presidency!
#NigeriaWillBeOK
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You'll get there through legitimate hardwork.
And through God that strengthens you.
A man's true test of financial stability is known when he has sudden emergencies without necessarily going to borrow from anyone.
It may wreck him temporarily, but he has solved the problem.
A man who earns legitimately, is happier & has better peace of mind when he provides for his family.
Unlike a man who earns his money illegitimately.
He doesn't have peace of mind, and filled with guilt, knowing that he's feeding his family with people's tears and pains.
End.
You will not always be able to save your bros from women. Most men will, sooner or later, audition for women's validation. Why?
Because men, when interacting with women, do not always adhere to their first authority of reason - the brain - but to the second: the penis.
And when the penis leads a man, he becomes blind to the logical, emotional, and moral dangers only the brain can detect. He may fail to see the magnitude of the foolishness or, more likely, erection himself away from the obvious stupidity when a woman says things like, "A real man takes care of the bills, the dishes, and the panties."
Your bros will become "real men" for pussy.
You cannot always stop them.
@Chi_lady_89@instablog9ja You don't understand what it means to "marry down" because if you did, you wouldn't be writing this.
Even the original poster doesn't understand what it means to marry down.
I suggest you ask your father what it means to "marry down", only he can explain it perfectly for you.
Let me say something.
I agree that the subsidy was a cancer, and I agree with President Tinubu for removing it.
But one thing the APC government has constantly failed to do is show prudence, empathy, accountability, and probity.
Nigerians cannot be suffering and living in fear of their safety daily, and we see elected government officials living in opulence and brazingly weaponizing poverty.
It's like adding salt to our injuries.
From how they display wealth, to even the convoy of elected officials and their arrogance, it shows that they do not see themselves as public servants.
Rather, they see themselves as messiahs who are not answerable to the citizens and can do anything and get away with it.
We have seen several politicians who have fraudulent cases to answer being welcomed to APC in particular, and their cases are no longer being pursued or prosecuted.
If you want Nigerians to endure the suffering, the least you can do as a government is to ensure the safety of their lives of almost non-existent properties.
And it must be reflected in the conduct and utterances of political office holders.
This is where the leaders get it wrong:
Displaying questionable wealth in the midst of poverty, and showing a lack of empathy.
Therefore, Nigerians have the right to be angry. And Nigerians have the right to reject a failed government.
You cannot lead us by force, and you must show readiness to conduct free and fair elections and commit to handing over power should you lose in that election.
Just as GEJ did.
The Nigerian presidency is not Tinubu's birthright, neither is APC the only political party, nor are their supporters the privileged citizens.
I am a legitimate taxpayer and a law-abiding citizen, and so are millions of us. And I fear for the future of my children.
End.
Deep missionary is more intimate than doggy.
Do more of deep missionary with your lovely wife, and more of doggy with your side chicks (if you have).
Even if you're doing doggy with your wife, make sure 7/10 times, you cum doing deep missionary.
I mean... When she wraps her legs around your waist that you can't hold back anymore.
And kiss her deeply while at it.
It's a good experience.
And it will continue to strengthen the bond that both of you have with each other.
And she will continue to prepare sweet and delicious meals for you.
Your neighbors, your friends, and her colleagues will not call her grumpy.
End.
That's why many of you do not realise that, the reason I am vehemently against stealing, is because it is the number one catalyst for unhealthy relationships and marriage.
You cannot have a society where many young men are thieves, & you would have responsible women for either relationship or marriage.
Men lead the society.
And if all the average young man between the ages of 18-25 knows, is that unless you make money (by hook or by crook), then you cannot date girls, we will always have a problem.
Prostitutes used to be mostly much older women, divorcees or single mothers.
But today, it's difficult to differentiate the "normal" young girl and a prostitute.
There is no way I can be here teaching how to have a healthy & non transactional relationship, and I'll not go ham on fraud.
Especially amongst the young men.
You cannot possibly lead a woman right, if you're a thief.
And unfortunately, this is rubbing off on other legitimate young men, because the young girls who they're supposed to have healthy relationships with, have been poisoned by these criminals.
Thereby, raising their standards to an unrealistic level, which only criminals can afford to meet.
If it was this bad during my teens and 20s, I would not have met my lovely wife the way I met her.
And I most likely would not have been able to sustain our relationship for 9 years.
Because I was very broke and building life, like many of you legitimate young men today.
If we don't unite to fight these "cancer", by using our coveted social media platforms, while hoping that the government authorities do their best to curb it, what we would be witnessing in many years to come, would be a disaster.
Men would be marrying prostitutes, and sound family values will be gradually going extinct.
Young married men would no longer trust their wives, & young wives would be prostituting right from their matrimonial homes.
I have been carefully documenting these ills on my page, hoping that posterity would be kind to me.
When young men become thieves, young women will become prostitutes.
End.
Many of you young men have taken the privilege of having me on this app for granted.
You don't have sense when it comes to dealing with women.
And it's quite unfortunate that many of you do not have close relationships with your fathers.
You cannot be a happy man in life if you do not find a good wife and a good mother for your children.
And whether you like it or not, all these young girls that you're misleading, would be your future wives.
I come here every day, using myself as example to illustrate how you should lead women and treat them, but may be you think I am lying or deceiving you.
If you think that all these young girls that you're sleeping with, will not get married, you're joking.
They'll repackage themselves for other men.
And others that you didn't sleep with, will repackage themselves for you.
And then you'll see the wife that you married.
You can't escape it.
You keep spending money on young women like you're married to them, and making them used to a lifestyle that is not sustainable, and makes them prone to cheating, should such lifestyle stop coming.
Even if you marry a virgin, it's the same.
I pity you people ooo.
If your father (when he was dating your mother) treated your mother the way you treat your girlfriends today, most of you would not have good mothers.
And to make things worse, many of you are criminals or sympathetic to criminals.
When young men steal, young women will become prostitutes.
End.
Please teach your young sons or brothers that it's wrong for them to confront any man that their women are cheating with.
It shows extreme weakness and scarcity mindset.
And he would be giving the woman the courage & boldness to continue to cheat on him.
Toto yakpa.
End.
Confronting the man that your woman is cheating with, will make your woman hornier for him.
And she will fuck him more and disvover that she can squirt through him.
The sight of your dick will be irritating her, because while fucking her, she's thinking of the other man.
End.
A man who never went to medical school cut a bullet out of a soldier's chest during the Korean War. He'd taught himself how minutes earlier, from a textbook. The soldier lived. So did the next fifteen. Every one of them. The surgeon was a complete fake.
His name was Ferdinand Demara, and in 1951 he walked into a Canadian Navy recruiting office and said he was a doctor named Joseph Cyr. The war needed doctors, and it needed them fast. A background check that normally took months got rushed through in days. Nobody checked. They handed him a uniform, made him the ship's doctor, and shipped him off to sea on a warship, the Cayuga.
Demara was not Joseph Cyr. Not even close. The actual Joseph Cyr was a doctor he had gotten friendly with a while back, then quietly robbed of his paperwork and his name. Demara had never spent a single day studying medicine.
Then one night a small boat pulled up alongside the Cayuga, packed with wounded soldiers. As many as nineteen of them, and some were in bad shape. The crew turned to their only doctor. Demara slipped into his cabin, flipped open a surgery textbook, read as fast as he could, and walked back out to operate. He dug a bullet out of one man's chest. He pumped the wounded full of penicillin to keep infection away. By the time his tour on that ship ended, he had performed sixteen operations on wounded men, according to the Associated Press. Not one of them died.
To everyone on board, the guy was a hero. An officer put him forward for a medal. Reporters covering the war grabbed the story of the brave ship's doctor and ran it in newspapers back home.
And that fame is exactly what got him caught. The actual Joseph Cyr was sitting at home the whole time, running a small doctor's office. One morning his mother was paging through her local newspaper and saw her son's name next to a story about battlefield surgery. She called him, confused. He had not gone anywhere. So she called the police.
The Navy could have thrown the book at him. It didn't. The brass was so embarrassed that a fake had pulled off battlefield surgery without losing a single patient that they decided the whole mess was better off buried. They let him go quietly, no trial, and paid his back wages on the way out.
The doctor act was only one of many. He also passed himself off as a prison official in Texas, a college dean, and a schoolteacher, running on nothing but stolen paperwork and a steady nerve. He lived by one rule he never broke: if someone doubts you, make them prove it. He almost never had to. People just took him at his word.
Sixteen men were cut open by someone who had read how to do it minutes before. All sixteen woke up.
It's the same trick the world keep falling for at the hands of American robber barons: "Adopt this technology quickly and uncritically or else you will be left behind! Do it NOW!!!!"
Meanwhile your access to the technology being promoted is owned and controlled by them, such that once you adopt it and become dependent on it, they control you. That's how Nigerians banks stampeded themselves into all manner of "Digital Banking" without having the infrastructure to actually host it.
Now all your mobile banking apps are hosted on AWS and the US government can basically turn off most of Nigeria's electronic financial system if it ever decides to.
You keep giving away your sovereignty to gringos in the name of "adopting disruptive technology" and "staying up to date with trends" and it never occurs to you to wonder why the same people who will NEVER help you build a bridge or a hospital to improve your life are so eager to give you access to their "groundbreaking technology" - often for "free".
Whenever all of you wake up sha.
If you ever wake up.
If my lovely wife leaves me today for any reasons best known to her.
You won't see me come online to cry.
I did not pay her school fees.
I did not pay her rent while dating her.
I did not buy her phones while dating her.
I did not give her money for hair while dating her.
I did not give her family shishi while dating her.
I did not send her tfare while dating her.
I did not halt my growth or career while dating her and even in marriage.
Everything that I have ever done for her, I did them because she invested in me and sacrificed for me.
And because she's raising responsible children for me and taking good care of me as her husband and father to our children.
So I'll not have any regrets that I wasted money.
Because I didn't put the cart before the horse.
And I'll co-parent with her in peace because she's a good mother.
I don't even mind willing some of my assets to her, even as an ex wife.
When I tell you that I am blessed by God with a wife, I am not joking.
I know who I married, and I cannot deceive myself for public validation.
She's not a perfect woman, but she's a woman that I have embraced her imperfections wholeheartedly.
End.
Check all your ‘friendships’ that lasted the most..
You’d find out what kept it wasn’t finance/status/going out together and all
You’ll figure HONESTY kept the friendship more than anything else
You were simply HONEST about yourself with them, hence the real long-lasting bond.