As a man, even if you're 20 years old, bookmark this video, save it on your device if you can and watch it every morning you wake up and later at night before you sleep.
Sadly, this would be some people's reality in years to come. Life is very brutal. You can blame this on him not being wealthy, but I need you to realise that you can be and still go back to zero. Sometimes it's not even because you were reckless. Life happens. Health condition, failed business or investment, being scammed, etc.
Money is not even my concern on this matter. You have to ensure that whoever you choose to settle with in this life is a super kind human. A person who has deep and genuine empathy for others. Not just you. Don't say they will pretend. There are things you can't hide. The signs will always be there. But most times you make excuses for the person because you're obsessed with them. Marry a very kind person, I beg you.
"Is Saudi Arabia doing j!hād? How many Saudi princes are riding around Arabia doing j!hād trying to st3āl land for their people? They've settled down, building nations, hosting world Cup but Northern Nigerians are still dreaming of j!hād. Are African elites st00p!d?"
—Seun Kuti
Hard truth nobody wants to say…
One after another, countries are taking action against Muslims. Not because they hate Islam, but because too many Muslims have failed to live peacefully within other societies. You move into a place, reject their culture, demand Sharia, call everything haram, and turn the same people who accepted you into enemies. Then you act shocked when they respond.