If a man is at home all the time and he’s the breadwinner that’s a bad sign. And the problem of being a father is you can never get it 100%.
If I give you time, we don’t have money; if I get the money, you don’t have me. I can’t be there and earn a living at the same time... and I have an obligation to make sure your life is better than mine.
The difficult thing about being a Father is that everybody wants it NOW.
The kid wants it NOW.
The wife wants its NOW.
The job wants it NOW.
The opportunity is NOW.
I just watched Blaqbonez’ interview with Rufai Oseni. What is happening between Blaqbonez and Odumodu black shouldn’t have gone this far if everything he said was true. Blaqbonez was playing his game as it’s meant to be played in a situationship, and he respected OD after realizing she and OD were having something serious.
OD on the other hand is either meant to leave the girl alone if he feels there’s something fishy or if he’s not clear enough about what’s going on rather than let a woman manipulate him.
You can’t accuse someone for sexuaI harassment when your partner was consensually slept with, not once, not twice. She was one of his babes at that time. The two of them even met the girl the same day and Blaq claims that he spoke to her first.
A simple conversation could have sorted this. But Odumodu must have been ready to let go of the girl if he’s really willing to hear and accept the truth, and I’m not sure he was ready for that.
The Blaqbonez and Odumodublvck situation is a reminder that a bruised ego can make a man behave beneath himself. No woman is worth losing your composure, reputation, or self-respect over. Sometimes walking away is the biggest flex.
After hearing Blaqbonez’s side of the Odumodublvck situation, my biggest takeaway is simple: never let another man’s history with your woman destroy your peace. If you can’t live with it, leave.
Beefing another man for years over a woman is crazy. If she crossed you, deal with her or walk away. Don’t let jealousy make you look small. No woman should have enough control over your emotions to make you obsess over another man. Keep your damn dignity and move on.
Never let a woman turn another man into your enemy. If you find out something you can’t accept, leave. Don’t lose your dignity trying to fight a man over her. Your ego might be bruised, but your self-respect should remain intact.
@alexeixbt This ain’t your thought either. Imagine doing plagiarism to gain followers and attention you didn’t earn. You ain’t got no motion if you have to steal words 😂
@alexeixbt This is not your thought. Coming to my threads to steal my writing word for word without giving credit and posing like it yours is diabolical. You won’t win like that. Do better bozo.
Men need healing. Men need just one man to say “it’s okay my brother, just hold on one more day; help is on the way. I know it’s tough but I have been there”. @burale1