"All men are a threat to me" is a white feminist talking point that has historically gotten children of color unalived for WW and I will be glad as fuck when it finally leaves queer discourse. Stop seeing "men" as a category of people who deserve abuse and ostracizing?
I just saw someone say “as you get older, it’s harder to make friends”
And I just want to make sure it’s clear that the problem is capitalism taking all our time and energy and not just due to being older like it’s natural causes
“Don’t speak ill of the dead“ means that you don’t stand in the funeral parlor and rehash Auntie Beverly‘s two painful divorces in front of her kids.
It doesn’t mean that you don’t hold the powerful to account for what they did — and their failures — which impacted millions.
"Unhoused people are doing [ activity you find problematic]."
So are your housed neighbors. They just have the privacy of a home to do it in. And suddenly it's not as problematic for you. Sounds like you should be pushing for everyone to be housed.
My whole life I felt forced to preplan scripts to make myself seem less Autistic. What I really needed were self-advocacy scripts to help me get my needs met.
But no one wanted to teach me those. The focus was always on changing me to make others comfortable. This has to stop.