@BlGGESTHATER As someone with family and family friends who made the mistake of marrying much older, divorced single dads, it is one way in many cases to ruin your entire life. Think about it, most eastern churches banned marriages with such huge gaps for a strong reason.
@StefCrisan@DegenRolf But op posted a study saying the opposite, that's why I wondered about longterm influence coming from (mainly female) supermodels getting plastered everyone on posters, magazines, tv & other mediums having an influence on the subconscious longer than the internet has been a thing
@st_louis_stan@uckema I know cases also where women have no issue to stay at home because their husband gives them their entire salary to determine what the money will be used for, but that is a case to case life experience people go through and adapt to.
@st_louis_stan@uckema Not every men shares his money. Some give leftover crumbs for little food, while wasting money on gambling, substance addictions, affairs or other things. It is understandable to want to earn your own money, while not having someone that can be trusted, or to want to aid them.
I feel really bad for people seeming to want love, connection and socializing, but end up getting themselves mocked. I wish they could get better advice online and by other people.
I don’t know who convinced autistic men that women like jerks, but I overheard a group of guys laugh about a dude first tell a girl he just met to go make him a sandwich, only to then panically repeat „it was only a joke“ after getting yelled at 😭
He tried to order me to pour him in a drink too in a bossy tone. Since I am polite, I just stared annoyed instead of reacting, so he sighed instead of apologizing and just did it himself. I had the feeling he got told somewhere that women like that & that it will get him respect?
@WASP_Supremecy@TheLaurenChen the old testament mosaic law just hinting at the prophecy and including practices like no intermixing with gentiles that got abolished under the new covenant?
I went to school with a Hijabi girl that cut herself, smoked and kissed boys at only 13. I view all that shallow legalism forced unto children silly. I listened to my parents, after my parents earned my trust by treating me with kindness and understanding.
@WASP_Supremecy@TheLaurenChen That is still merit based and not based on flesh. We do inherit the same kingdom and will receive crowns, even if in different ranks and with different other rewards.
@PTBwrites I mean, on the bright side, full soberness seems to also be on the rise, so it's mainly just the middle falling and the extremes rising through the internet enabling echo chambers.