If you are getting married today, you don't owe anyone a baby in 9 months. Don't let society dictate to you how to live your life.
Plan. Make sure you are ready before bringing a child into this world. Babies change a lot in a marriage. Be prepared and get ready to adjust.
When my husband was hinting about getting married, I'll give him side eye and be like "what's wrong with this one"
We had known each other for 10 years, 4 years as just school mates who never said hi to each other,
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