Most couples break up after having a baby because the woman changes and a lot of the time, she changes because she’s basically doing everything by herself. 😭 She has to take care of the baby, make the bottles, get up throughout the night, cook, clean, AND still take care of her man. Now she’s exhausted, overwhelmed, and touched out, so sex isn’t really on her mind. Then instead of the man stepping up and helping her, y’all start arguing, he feels neglected, she feels unsupported, and sometimes he ends up cheating. 💀
A baby doesn’t necessarily ruin a relationship. The lack of support after the baby comes can.
Insecurity was enough to kick Jonathan out. The rules cannot be different because BAT is a Yoruba man. On every other metric, GEJ was 10x better than BAT.
This is not an invitation to a debate. If you don’t agree that’s your problem. I’m not trying to convince you.