There's no need to reinvent the wheel.
People have dressed well for centuries. There is a sub-culture out there that fits your personality, interests, and vibe. Use it as your foundation to express a language that makes sense.
Watch how people react to you.
@orangebook Environment is so important. You can go your whole life believing you are an anxious person until one day you find yourself around people or in a place that flips the script. Suddnely you feel energetic, expressive, and open.
White dress sneakers suck.
Most "fashion gurus" will tell you otherwise. They'll tell you it's an essential for any man's wardrobe. The problem is white dress sneakers lack personality, character, and a story.
Simply put: they look sterile (see image 1).
Here are 3 better alternatives that you can dress up or down (and they look better with age):
- Vans Authentic
- Converse Chuck 70 Low
- German Army Trainer
@orangebook There comes a point in life where you have to stop apologising for who you are, stop feeling shame for your “flaws”, stop putting yourself down to raise someone else.
It helps no one.
Brutal Truth:
The world is going to judge you based on your appearance.
So why not control how others view you?
Why not dress in a way that makes you feel powerful?
Getting jacked is the best way to improve how you see yourself and how others see you.
The second best way is to just dress better (and your results won’t be killed by holiday binging).