"before you came into my life i missed you so bad" -carly rae jepsen
"the finding of an object is in fact a refinding of it" -freud
"the object [of desire] is by nature a refound object. that it was lost is a consequence of thatโbut after the fact." -lacan
I had a french professor who once said if you just did something like going to the supermarket and experienced it fully without the goggles of habit and catรฉgories you would go crazy with pure sense and joy. I think about it all the time. In a way this is all for him.