I don't see any difference. I'd rather invest in a good oven (possibly with a grill function) so i can use it to bake a full cake and do other other stuff.
I'll consider your feelings, work on my delivery, but you see the truth? You will hear it from me. Always. And if it costs me the relationship, fine. Let it go.
Truth and love are the only real things to me in this world. I'd rather hold them and be alone, than abandon myself.