Loving the process means finding joy and meaning in everything that your sport consist of, from the games, practices, workouts, film study, to the team camaraderie.
As a coach, you can’t make all your players happy all the time. You need the courage to do what’s best for the team, even if it upsets some of your players. Focus more on what your players need, not what they want. Be a leader, not a people-pleaser.
The five mental challenges of sports:
1. Pushing through discomfort.
2. Blocking out distractions.
3. Staying poised under pressure.
4. Thinking critically to solve problems.
5. Managing your ego and working with others.
Work hard to improve in all of these areas!
In order to improve as an athlete, you must believe it’s possible to improve. Having a growth mindset gives you the confidence and motivation needed to train hard and reach your full potential.
To succeed as an athlete, you need to learn how to handle failure. Once you improve your attitude and start learning from each failure, you can make great improvements and reach your full potential.
Get off your emotional rollercoaster and stay level-headed in games. Don’t get too low after bad plays or too high after good plays. Steady emotions lead to steady performance.
To succeed as an athlete, you need both passion and discipline. Passion without discipline takes you nowhere, and discipline without passion eventually leads to burnout.
If I could give youth coaches one reminder heading into the season:
Don't sacrifice development trying to win a game nobody will remember in 5 years.
COMPETE to win today.
DEVELOP for tomorrow.
Mental toughness, once developed, doesn’t just stay with you. You have to continue to work hard to maintain it. If you get lazy, you can become mentally weak again.