If I cut you off, your success later won’t make me regret it. Good for you, truly. But becoming rich, popular, married, fit, or “blessed” does not rewrite how you treated people when your character was on trial. I can respect your growth from a distance and still remember why access was revoked. Success can change your status, but it doesn’t automatically clean your history.
Once you realize as a man you ain’t gotta explain a thing… let people create narratives, and once you learn that 1 person is too small to focus solely on… life becomes easy. It takes about 30 years of age to realize this. Ignore the world and get to the bag. Drama is a distraction.
I told my daughter she had to pay $400 a month to live at home after college. She thought I was being hard on her. Paid it every month without complaint. Never missed once.
Two years later she moved out. I handed her an envelope. $9,600. Every dollar she ever paid me. Plus a little extra.
She cried. I told her that was her security deposit, first month, and emergency fund.
She thought I was punishing her. I was preparing her.
She’s a very happy young woman.
Imagine being in a relationship and getting cheated on. You leave because that’s not what you signed up for. Now imagine your now “ex” targeting you to “teach you a lesson” and to humiliate and “humble” you for leaving them. Crazy Right? 😂
Reactive Abuse Is At An All Time High. You Have To Be Mindful Because People Will Throw Dirt On Your Name, Lies And All. Then Will Rage Bait You React In A Light That Validates Their Hate And Mistreatment Of You Or The Attempts To Tarnish Your Character.
Don’t ever think that people aren’t watching your page, or keeping up with how you move on social media. They may not like, or share. They may follow from fake pages too. You can trust that you’re the topic of conversation in group chats! 😂