Young men looking for a wife to marry, let me teach you how to do a bit of filtering from a woman’s perspective;
1. She bills you first or second week of talking, BLOCK
2. She has no job or business, BLOCK
3. You ask her on a date and she wants you to buy her a dress or pay for her hair, BLOCK
4. You ask her, “so where do you see yourself in the next 1yr” and she replies with “I don’t know o,” BLOCK
5. Her money is her money, your money is our money, BLOCK
6. Always buying new expensive things without a clear source of income, BLOCK
7. You buy her a gift on her birthday but you didn’t get a gift on yours? BLOCK
8. Always asking you for money, BLOCK
9. Only you do the calling, she doesn’t call you, BLOCK
10. She doesn’t want kids, BLOCK.
Never let money take the front seat in your approach to her.
If money can buy her affection, someone richer will take her away from you.
Be generous, not a simp.
A woman liking you is one of the easiest things to tell.
A woman ready for marriage is the second easiest thing to tell.
Reshared 🔄
You are driving the same Nissan Advan since 2015 to your Juja home and drinking a weak mix of water, milk and a floating teabag but received Sh 199,000 interests from Mansa X, Sh 200,000 Mentor SACCO dividends, and expecting Sh 50,000 from your EABL stocks. True wealth doesn't scream.
Act broke.
Delete food delivery apps.
Drive a modest car.
Live in a cheap apartment.
Keep a simple wardrobe.
Ignore their judgment.
Stack cash.
Invest, invest, invest.
Set yourself up for life.
BOYS should know how to punch and fight.
Enrol them on:
• Karate classes
• Boxing classes
• Taekwondo classes
• Mixed Martial Arts
• Archery & Firearm training
When I lived in Emining, Baringo, teenagers learned how to make bows and arrows.
A man's life is a battle.
Men,
Concentrate on a single goal, a single task, and beat it into submission.
Don't try to do hundreds of things expecting easy results.
Focus on ONE thing, finish, evaluate, celebrate, move to the next.
One goal at a time.
#MasculinitySaturday
HOW TO INCREASE YOUR AURA:
1. Stay calm. Don't react to everything.
2. Speak less. Mean what you say.
3. Keep your promises to yourself.
4. Rest your body. Move a little every day.
5. Let go of old anger and hurt.
6. Spend some time alone. Silence helps.
7. Stop trying to impress people.
8. Be real. Be honest. Be kind.
Your aura grows when your mind is peaceful,
your heart is clear, and your life feels right.
Instead of wasting your 1-acre piece of land planting maize,
Plant NAPIER GRASS.
1-acre can hold 1,550 rectangles of napier grass.
Each rectangle measures 1 m × 0.75 m, [and 3 feet depth], spaced 1 m lengthwise and 0.5 m widthwise.
In each rectangle, you will harvest 2 heads of napier grass every 3 months.
Each head is sold at KES 200.
Therefore, 1-acre can return KES 300,000 in 4 - 6 months.
This can go higher during sunny seasons [December to March].
Invest in an effecient drip irrigation system and a well.
No unnecesary pesticides, storage losses and labor costs.
Maize farming is a useless subsistence venture with a negative return on investment.
Luhyas, wake up!
Avoid confrontation and you’ll have to deal with more of it.
Be ready for confrontation and confrontation will avoid you.
Nobody wants to fuck with a guy who’s ready for war.
Don’t be a coward.
Cowards die first.
Village funerals expose it. The man with no job sits longer. Talks less. Splits the firewood. Eats quickly. Smiles alot. Leaves early. Unemployment teaches you how to disappear politely.