You CANNOT go back in time and change the decisions you took. Forgive yourself, move on, be your best version. You're alive and until death all defeat is psychological.
Rebuild.
Nobody apologizes anymore; they just disappear and call it moving on. Accountability died somewhere between pride and ego. People would rather lose someone than admit they were wrong. We’ve normalized walking away instead of working through it. Communication has become optional; ghosting has become the standard response to discomfort. Even closure isn’t guaranteed anymore—people just leave you with questions and call it self-care.
No matter how hard things get, I will NEVER let anyone convince me I'm crazy, unhealthy, or insecure for having a NORMAL reaction to their HURTFUL behavior.
PLEASE avoid eggshell type of relationships, can't express yourself, can't be yourself, can't be straight forward, can't be comfortable, can't talk like adults, can't be heard, can't respond with love without it actually turning into something negative...
cheating is bad.
really bad.
but a man who lies to your face, manipulates you, plays the victim, and somehow makes you feel guilty for what he did?
yeah, that is worse.
Men will say they want a woman who gives them peace, but sometimes the same men are giving the woman absolutely nothing to feel peaceful about.
No consistency, no reassurance, no stability, plenty of problems and somehow she’s still supposed to be soft, happy and unbothered. Be serious. The way someone shows up in a relationship is affected by how that relationship makes them feel.