That's what @HEBabuOwino told you to post today?. Tell your boyfriend to stop selling substance to university students. For your information, if there's anyone who is truly clean, it's the author of this response. Most women your age are married with kids and have a happy family, while all you do is yap online. If you lack work to do, go back to the village and do something meaningful like helping your mum with farming. Meanwhile are you still on drugs or Us president Trump's executive order affected you too leading to online verbal diarrhea.
First, you earn money from your salaried job.
Then you start your side business.
Then you reinvest profits.
~A job will pay your bills.
~A business will make you rich.
~Investments will make you wealthy.
GENTLEMEN, KINDLY SPARE A MINUTE!!
Some of you men are too naive. You are too scared to punish a woman by withdrawing your attention and affection from her. You are too scared of returning her energy of silent treatment to you. You have been held captive by the narrative that when you give her silent treatment or withdraw from her, that another man will shower her with all the love, care and attention, and she will forget about you.
While that could be true, let's look at the other side. So, is it you that another woman will not pick interest in? Or you think women don't have their eyes on you? Especially if you have a good Game (Value), you are just there underrating yourself.
Obviously, the woman will definitely attract other men to herself, especially if she is hot and beautiful. But you can't avoid that, no matter what you try. Even when you guys are in good terms, she still gets attention from them and maybe even entertains them secretly without you knowing.
But look at it, Would you rather tolerate her disrespect and misbehavior and keep crawling back to her, even when she is wrong and refuses to apologize and retrace her steps, but rather chooses to play the victim and manipulate you?
Would you rather keep begging for her attention and falling into her frame? See! It is better to ruthlessly withdraw your attention and care from her, if she is not behaving herself well. You must set order and discipline in your relationship and she has to follow.
Sometimes we take certain things for granted because of fear of losing a woman that will not even think twice if she finds a "better man". If she rather entertain attention and affection from other men when you have issues instead of submitting to you and finding ways to come back and reconcile with you and follow your leadership, then you are with the wrong woman.
Allow other men to roll with her, and simply forget about her. Move on with your life & focus your precious & valuable time on your goals and mission. Sometimes you will discover that you achieve more when you withdraw your attention from a woman & channel all into your hustle. (this has been my personal experience too).
Since she deserves better, according to their national anthem with her girl's circle, let her go & stay with the better men, while you build your life & move closer to your goals. Never let emotions overwhelmed you, don't revenge, don't beat her, don't sleep around, don't womanize, don't disrespect her, just move on & pray to God to send a good woman your way.
Sam has Ksh 90M in assets largely funded from loans on his net salary and business income that total Ksh 1,080,000 monthly. Can he retire in 3 years at age 50?
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If you put aside Sh 300 a day, your savings would be Sh 109,500 in a year.
If your savings earned just 12% yearly, you would have over Sh 410K in three years.
The interest you earn also earns interest. With time, more savings, and better investments, money works harder for you.
Men,
— Also,
Avoid custodial fights and court battles,
These conflicts have detrimental consequences on the children.
If she insists on having the children,
— So be it. Let her have them.
Refuse her drama.
Play your part. Focus on your future.
#MasculinitySaturday