There are tests we have to pass. One of them is being faithful when nothing is changing, doing our best when it’s not growing, being good to people that are not being good to us.
People will try to squeeze you into what they’re used to, into what they think. Take advice, listen to counsel, but you may have to disappoint a few people to reach your destiny.
Perhaps God disappointed you because what you where expecting was too small. He wants to do abundantly above what you DARE to ask. What haven’t you DARED to ask. I dare you!