Yes, I've pondered this question deeply.
You wouldn't marry your daughter off to a scoundrel, yet you might let her wed someone who seems decent right now—and that would be a disaster.
Therefore, I can hardly trust a person’s promises about the future if they have never been tested by money, stress, women, and temptation.
I will look closely at his parents, his fate, and how he behaves in small, trivial moments, for these things will most likely shape his future.