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You really asking to hang on or walk away after he admitted to fucking his ex and she telling you she got a key but you need permission to spend the night or even come over? On a scale of 1 to stupid how dickmatized are you?
Q6. I THOUGHT that my boyfriend and I reached that coveted spot in our relationship where I could drop by after work and spend the night—without calling first. Last month, I dropped by. We made love and I went to sleep. I couldn’t sleep, so I rolled over to get my phone off the nightstand. My phone fell on the floor and slid under the bed. I felt around for it until a bloated hand REACHED UP FROM UNDER THE BED and gave it to me. It was my boyfriend’s alcoholic ex, hiding under the bed. Insults flew. My boyfriend pretended to be asleep until I mentioned yanking his 🍆 off to wake him up. HE admitted that he banged his ex right before I arrived, and she was trying to sneak out, but I was in the wrong because it’s his house and I should’ve phoned first. His ex added that she still had a key. I’ve invested 2.5 years in this relationship and I feel that I’m this/close to marriage. Walk away or hang on? Advice. #SBCCHAT
Q5. I caught her with her ex Cedric’s 🍆 in her mouth. Cedric ran so fast that he left his phone behind. I lost control and smacked the soul out of her. She leaned her head back and smiled. THAT’S when I knew she was a full-on demon. Her: “You don’t own me. I don’t belong to you. I’m not yours. This ain’t your p—ssy. I can have him IN my mouth whenever I want.” I asked her if she was trying to get me to unalive her. Her: “You’re not man enough to end me. Please try. I beg you. I’d sacrifice myself just to know that you’ll spend your life in jail.” She broke my heart. I know there’s a restraining order against me, but I drove past her house and saw Cedric’s car and I had to kick in her front door. I walked away from her and she jabbed several times in my back with a pen knife. I thought she was pinching me. I got medical treatment and I forgave her, but our relationship is draining me. And she tried to press charges about the front door. She knew Cedric—or any man—ain’t supposed to be there. How to fix us? Advice.
Brooooo. You hit a known drug user raw that be fucking randoms? And now she pregnant and you got a GF. You got to be one of the dumbest mfs in the world right now
Q4. My roommate April has one clean corner of the apartment, and it’s spotless. Drapes are steamed, carpet is clean, books that she never read are stacked neatly next to s3x toys. It’s all for her OnlyFans. Just off-camera are rat traps, and used heroin needles. I clean when I can, but she invites tricks home (I film their s3x scenes for her OnlyFans) and they mess up the apartment again. The health department has sent several notices to our home that April refuses to open. I’ve slept with her a few times out of curiosity but now I’m scared I may have caught something…and passed it on to my girlfriend. April looks pregnant and there’s a chance that it’s mine cuz I’m the only one she lets hit raw. April thinks I love her (I’ve said this to get some) and she wants to start a family so abortion is not an option. I don’t know what to do at this point. Advice. #SBCCHAT
Q3. Husband said I was boring in bed, that’s why he spent money in the strip club. He met me in the strip club. I brought a dancer home, put my mouth on her in front of him just to add spice to our marriage. He couldn’t perform with the two of us in bed—he just wanted her. A few days later, I broke out with fever blisters on my face and pink eye. Husband pulled away from me, he said I was punished for disrespecting our marital bed with the stripper. And now he’s back in the strip club. I don’t want to lose my husband to another woman, I stole him away from his first wife. I earned his love and my WIFE status, but I feel that he’s slipping away. What to do? #SBCCHAT
Sue that nigga. ATP you got a pattern and suing for emotional and financial damage is a possibility not a guarantee tho. Team up and expose that mf too.
Q2. In April 2022, 4 weeks before my wedding day, my future mother-in-law sent a text: “Farrah, Malcolm moved away. I respect how much you love my son, but please forgive him, and give him space.” My family counseled me that I must respect his choice to leave. I was not okay. I lost so much money on the canceled wedding. I struggled to survive our breakup, but Malcolm walked away so easily. He was dating again and living his best life on social media. In 2023, he got engaged. I was furious—and devastated. Last month his ex-fiancée Roshenna reached out to me on Facebook. Malcolm dumped her, too. I was in shock. Apparently, this is a game that Malcolm and his mother play; love-bomb a woman, propose, and then leave weeks before the wedding. Is there anything we can do to stop them? We’ve suffered MAJOR emotional damage and lost about $14,000 in cancelled wedding expenses. #SBCCHAT
He’s making you feel what you ARE. He telling you number 1 when she ain’t there because that’s the only time you are. I hope the wife find out and A town stomp yo ass tho 🙂🙃
Q1. I lost my job and I’m staying at a friend’s house while I find another place to stay. I’ve been dealing with my friend’s husband for a few months and he made promises to leave her. But now that I’m in their house he’s acting funny. Case in point: I was washing my panties in the kitchen sink. He hit the roof. Him: “B!tch, why you washing your nasty drawers over my coffee cup?” Me: “You’ve had your face all in my 😾, why you acting brand new?” He told me if I EVER mentioned that again while his wife was there he’d kick me out. BUT I was speaking my truth. Here I am in his house and he’s STILL trying to make me feel like I’m #2. When she’s at work, he tells me I’m his #1, and I believe him. I’m tired of hiding our love. What to do? #SBCCHAT
@NikkiHaley And also to say the Charleston shooting wasn’t about racism when the person who did it clearly said it was about race. I’m so glad I don’t live in SC anymore. To have the governor of SC say that is one of the stupidest things you’ve said.
Q6. I come from a long line of alcoholics, thus I’ve never had a drink. I smoke crack tho, and I’ve always kept a job and a decent enough life. My plug 🔌 [drug dealer] says cocaine shipments are hard to get these days so he’s transitioning from crack to locally-made meth. He gave me a hit and I ruined my life in a week. I slept with everybody and anybody who would come to my bed. Bed bugs (real and imaginary) feasted on my skin. I scratched myself until I bled. I didn’t sleep for days. A s3x partner told me I was running outside, dead of winter, wearing nothing but boots, so he and my neighbor brought me back home. I’m sure the 3 of us had s3x. I lost my job for trying to f*ck in a storage closet. But I loosely recall taking nasty pics and making xxx videos with others while I was high. I’m living with my sister, I changed my appearance and I’m trying to find another job. But the shame is consuming me. I see men in the street, smiling at me knowingly, and I wonder if they have me on video doing nasty things. I’m losing my mind. Meth scared me and I vowed to never go back, BUT I want to hit meth just once more, to forget what I’ve done. HELP. #SBCCHAT
Q5. On Thanksgiving, my child told me, almost in a whisper, that “Grandma is gonna die on X-Mas.” I punished her for saying such an ugly thing. Lo and behold, my mother passed away in her sleep on 12/24. My child’s presence soothed me, helped me with my grieving process. I imagine that my daughter still has a connection with my beloved mother, or at least she has premonitions. I asked my child when I was going to pass away. My daughter hugged me, and buried her head in my arms; she had tears in her eyes. She tells me: “When mommy finds out about your girlfriend.” I’ve been careful so no one knows about my girlfriend. We use burner phones. We’re discreet at work. We link at a motel 40 miles away from town. What more can I do to conceal my affair? My wife CAN BE the violent type, she stabbed her own brother when he stole her credit card. I’m afraid to take that dirt nap. 🪦☠️ HELP. #SBCCHAT