Most marriages collapse 2 years after the first baby — because nobody warned them it would feel like climbing Everest in flip-flops with no map.
Erica Komisar:
If you tell couples “parenting is a gentle little hill,” they collapse when the real mountain hits.
But if you say:
“Expect exhaustion, no sleep, brutal hardship — but the view (joy, love) is worth it. We’ll train you,” they can survive it together.
Lies about how “easy” or “magical” it is destroy relationships when reality arrives.
The 2–3 year post-baby period is the highest-risk window for divorce — not because love dies, but because unrealistic expectations + sleep deprivation + zero preparation = emotional breakdown.
Parents of young kids: What was the biggest “nobody warned me” shock after baby arrived?
Or if you’re expecting — what are you most bracing for?
Your honest stories 👇
Faith in God brought Andrew Huberman the deepest peace of his life—at 50, after decades of pushing it away.
In this raw 3:42 clip, the neuroscientist opens up:
“I kept resisting the voice in my head that said there’s a God and I’m going to pray.
It felt incompatible with being a scientist.
But recently… I stopped fighting to control everything.
For the first time in my entire life, I’ve experienced sustained, real deep peace.
Everything’s okay. Everything is as it should be.”
He calls it 100% because he gave over to the notion of a higher power—reading the Bible, prayer, faith-based practices.
Not just belief, but active practice.
Even if it all turns out to be neurobiology, he’s good with it.
In the meantime, he’s praying—and it’s transformed his life.
No regrets about science or fitness or family.
The one thing he wishes he’d done earlier? Stop resisting God.
Powerful, vulnerable...
Worth 3 minutes of your time.
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Andrew Huberman: "Someone I really respect said this, 'There are basically two kinds of people in life. Winners and losers.' And the definition is this—losers take things that happen to them... and the wallow and they use it for self or outward destruction."
"Winners take whatever they feel, it sucks, and they transmute it into things that are good for themselves and for the world."