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A lot of men in marriage go through painful emotional violence from their wives SILENTLY.
They can't speak out.
They suffer the lies and allegations from their wives silently without open rebuttal.
They can't defend themselves.
Because these women have convinced the world that the man is the problem.
These wives in public present themselves as victims of a bad husband, then use this victimhood as a power of terror over the husband.
In public, these women present themselves as happy souls, good, warm at heart. They are always writing joyful comments on social media, expressing themselves as gorgeous and high-energy women.
In public, or at work, they are always up and about, trying to please everyone. Trying to carve out an image of a warm-hearted person who is liked by everyone.
Nobody will agree with the man if he explains that it is the woman who is the problem in that marriage.
This is manipulation, and her target doesn't notice her strategy.
These wives have hearty laughs and rosy conversations with people, showing a picture of a woman who is so good and lovely.
Yet, back at home, she is the demon.
Silent but dangerous.
Terrorizes her husband.
The husband won't speak,
Because the woman has convinced everyone through her manipulative drama that it is the man who is not likeable.
These wives are what we call NARCISSISTIC WIVES.
These wives are CUNNING, MANIPULATIVE and CALLOUS.
We say THE DARK TRIAD PERSONALITY
• Narcissism
• Machiavellism
• Psychopathy
They are narcissistic, they have mastered the emotions of the man, which they manipulate and use to advance their terror on the man.
They use Machiavellianism as a tool for manipulating the relatives and friends of the man to portray the man as a bad man, and portray herself as the victim, when in truth, she is the perpetrator.
They are psychopathic when cornered. They can yell, scream or walk naked to prove a point or blame the man.
A lot of men live with these demons.
These are dangerous women.
They are selfish, dangerous, and they can land you in trouble because every move is about her survival, and nothing about the man or the family.
You can only discover these personality traits late in marriage, probably 15 years deep, with no return.
She uses any of her dark triad personality traits to survive through the conflicts.
Unless you make the conscious step to break free from the prison of this demon, you will suffer for good.
Ukihurumia wazazi, especially when you're from a poor background
Nakuhurumia sana because hiyo umaskini hautaumaliza
Wazazi unafaa kuwa support na masharti, unatuma pesa na una explain how to budget for it
Wakipeleka pesa ya upkeep kwa Bishop unawaacha wanalala njaa piropa
Men,
Lastly,
Today is March 15th,
Julius Caesar was killed on this date, the Ides of March, because his friend Brutus betrayed him.
"Et tu, Brute?" ( Even you, Brutus?)
He couldn't believe his eyes.
Remember Law 2:
Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies.
Every morning when you wake up, say this prayer silently:
"Lord, protect me from my friends; I can take care of my enemies." -Voltaire
SAVE A MAN
#MasculinitySaturday
To save with a SACCO or a Money Market Fund?
1. Liquidity
Your savings in a MMF are more liquid than in a SACCO.
You can access your money within 2-3 days in a MMF
Savings in a BOSA SACCO account can only be withdrawn when you are leaving the SACCO.
Which is the best SACCO to join?
The best SACCO to join is one which you can easily get guarantors when you need a loan.
Hence it makes sense to join a SACCO where your friends, relatives or work colleagues are members.
Most importantly the SACCO should also be regulated by SASRA, have good financials and a solid management.
Imagine this
You're moving in to Kileleshwa & you have the option to buy a 3 bedroom apartment at KES 15M or pay a monthly rent of KES 150K.
Hint: Investing the 15M in an IFB that fetches a return of 13% would earn you 1.95M per annum or 162.5K per month
Lets evaluate this👇
Happy New Month!
Time to set goals and pursue them relentlessly.
Our 2024 April Goals:
- Save 30% of our daily income in a SACCO
- Wake up before 5 am. Daily 4B's
- 2 chapters of a book every morning
- 2 pages of writing or journaling every morning
- Daily OMAD
- Weekly Autophagy Marathon
- 3 gym sessions each week
- 1 road run every weekend
- Semen retention for 30 days
- Learn a skill ( HTML, CSS) or any other skill (carpentry, masonry, metalwork)
- No watching the news. It will vex your spirits
- Buy a sheep or a goat, or a cow, or poultry
2024 is our year of SELF-DISCIPLINE.
Happy New Month once again and have a successful one.
#ManDay