there's an old couple talking about their little tiff earlier and then lolo gives lola a little travel bundle gift and he says "i dont wanna miss any flights, any wives-" and lola says "well you only have one wife though" 🤣🤣💀
"but im so lonely"
never forget this line
the point of this scene is not how girlboss women are. it's that there is a weight inherent to that ambition. a grief of being left alone or behind, of wanting to be good, of having no one because who could love you this far out to sea?
i never realized it was my people pleasing qualities that was draining me in social situations. when you are hyper vigilant of everyone’s emotional state due to the inconsistent emotions you experienced from parents in childhood, you spend your socializing focused on others.
oh my god there are so many books to read and instruments to play and languages to learn and people to meet and songs to hear and food to taste and places to see and lives to live