I remember this one time I told my ex it was my “lady time” and he offered to bring me a snack. I asked for a box of original Kraft Mac and cheese. Random craving. He brought velveeta. And when he gave it to me I said I don’t like velveeta and I was visibly disappointed. He told me I wasn’t grateful for him going out of his way and velveeta tastes better anyway, he didn’t like Kraft. I then broke up with him.
This actually works. It may not have been my dad’s intention or primary goal but he did pretty much all of this and I unconsciously grew up with unbelievable standards. It’s damn near impossible to impress me. This is probably why.
One time me and a friend were chatting on the train and we were talking kinda loud. This lady said “I love your conversation can I join? I have so much to add” And we talked for multiple stops and i loved it 😭
All of the below are simultaneously true:
1) Women under 25 ought to seek men 5-10 years older than them if they want to find a man serious about marriage, as their peers sure as hell aren't up for the task in any way, shape or form
2) Men who knowingly waste 3+ years of a woman's time with promises and false hopes are a PLAGUE upon modern dating
3) Women must stop placing a man's charm and entertainment value above traits like honesty and work ethic; this causes them to latch onto lovable losers and commitment-phobes.