Sam

[Sam @DadSam25]

@JamesSurowiecki Amazing.
Admitting you're a bad driver *and* have no idea how physics works in the same post

[Sam @DadSam25]

@cherpers @LisaFenDragon This entire discourse is centered around a several years dead bedroom.

If you are staying silent for *years* depriving yourself of pleasure and/or allowing your husband to take part in your pleasure, you have to take at least a little bit of accountability

[Sam @DadSam25]

@virtualjew @shelbyruthellis Yea.
If you aren't going into an enm relationship expecting to do *more* communication than you do in a monogamous one, its all but doomed to fail

[Sam @DadSam25]

@KINGGGE_ I hate to be the one to have to tell you this, but she IS having sex....

Just not with you.

Its either couples counseling with complete honesty from both parties, or leave.

Do NOT have children with this woman

[Sam @DadSam25]

@cherpers @LisaFenDragon 3- Woman constantly talk about a need to communicate and desire to be known-but then refuse to actually open up about it?

4- Men are not mind readers, and do not think like women do. The refusal to acknowledge this leads to these types of problems

[Sam @DadSam25]

@cherpers @LisaFenDragon 1- not offended by this discourse, just astounded at the lack of awareness surrounding it.
2- Becoming an expert in something requires learning, often with the help of someone more knowledgeable in the field. Who is more knowledgeable about a woman's own body than herself?
1/2

[Sam @DadSam25]

@cherpers @LisaFenDragon It is 2026. We live in an age when the wrong "experimentation" can have you labeled as a creep or a sexual assaulter. What one woman loved the other may hate.

And thats not even getting into the women who fake it, even further muddying the waters

[Sam @DadSam25]

@cherpers @LisaFenDragon Simultaneously refusing to communicate what you need.

I'm so glad my wife doesn't think this way.

[Sam @DadSam25]

@cherpers @LisaFenDragon The lack of accountability and self awareness in this post is astounding.

News flash- women vary wildly in what they want/need in the bedroom. Communicate what you want and watch him bend over backwards to make it happen.

You can't complain about a lack of pleasure while 1/2

[Sam @DadSam25]

@IMAO_ I got news for you bud....

You're the biker in this scenario

[Sam @DadSam25]

@MaebiiX As someone who gets off on my wife getting off, I'll never be able to understand this

[Sam @DadSam25]

@HakataQueen That second part is where you lose me.
Don't convince yourselves its ok.
Speak up. Say what you need.
Communicate

[Sam @DadSam25]

@MaebiiX Don't complain about lack of pleasure if you can't communicate to your partner about what you need to get there

[Sam @DadSam25]

@lttwrds @hilosfemi2 Women's infidelity is actually increasingly celebrated, but go off I guess

[Sam @DadSam25]

@notmark @prieurdp Omg good one.

How will I ever recover

[Sam @DadSam25]

@soncharm @faithandheresy @CoolandGoodGuy You posted a bad take on the internet, you don't get to tell people to stop arguing with you about it after 🤣

[Sam @DadSam25]

@soncharm @CoolandGoodGuy By what metric?
We can all play the what if and anecdotes game.
I see plenty of people take a bad angle trying to nose in and then have to course correct, holding up both lanes of traffic anyway

[Sam @DadSam25]

@almu1968 @SteamboatLion @MonicaMAlmaguer Tell me you've never been in a relationship with a man without telling me

[Sam @DadSam25]

@soncharm @faithandheresy @CoolandGoodGuy Hey guess how its much easier to look for that gap you're talking about

[Sam @DadSam25]

@soncharm @CoolandGoodGuy So you'd rather pass the time spent waiting off to the person that has to wait for them to back out of the spot?