your abusive father controlled his temper around coworkers, neighbors, friends, church members, cashiers, & strangers.
then he brought the rage home to people with less power to leave.
that was a choice he kept making.
Dear Jesus, the people you shed your blood for are fantasizing about beating their future kids to an inch of their lives as a form of ‘discipline’ for offending them.
The beatings worked like mad:
- we cannot challenge authority
- we keep electing leaders that rob us and rub it in our faces
- we maintain a culture of silence that enables the cycle of abuse
- we dissociate and can only process difficult emotions through the lens of religion
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Train yourself to stop seeing everything as disrespect. If you have to ignore context, intent, and common sense to feel disrespected, then the disrespect may exist only in your perception.
Again, Violence over perceived disrespect isn’t strength. It’s poor emotional regulation.
Intentionally twisting someone’s harmless words, regardless of the context or intent, just to frame them as disrespectful is problematic in itself.
And reacting with violence over perceived disrespect without considering the speaker’s actual intent is very unreasonable.
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There’s no single benefit of a child dancing on TikTok other than online popularity which they don’t need at such age
Children need go play physically, learn, interact, participate in sports etc
Since when did TikTok become part of school curriculum?! And which time do they make these videos? During recess when they should be eating or playing? Or during class periods ??
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We need mandatory safeguarding and data protection trainings in Nigeria for teachers, healthcare workers, caregivers, social workers, coaches, religious leaders, and anyone working with vulnerable groups: kids, the elderly, people with disabilities, and other vulnerable adults 🧵