My grandmother died last night. I spent a lot of my childhood with her. It’s hitting me really hard. Been crying since yesterday But I don’t have the energy to share that news with my friends yet. I love you soo much Jajja Mitcham. Just putting it into the universe ❤️ RIP ❤️😘
being very authentic with who you are, expressing that openly and leaving nothing unsaid will intimidate people who aren’t ready to confront themselves and their own emotions - never feel bad about that.
people can only receive your feelings at a level of emotional intelligence that they possess and when you realize that you’ll stop entertaining energy that admires the waves that flow within you but lacks the depth to swim in them.
soft spoken man will always be my top tier. imagine being with someone who will never raise his voice even when he’s so mad or frustrated. literally always be the standard
Plenty overthinkers have had a difficult childhood. Traumatic events turned them into hyper-vigilant adults who overanalyse in an attempt to gain a sense of control. They anticipate worst case scenarios not simply because they’re pessimistic, but due to a desire for preparedness.
And One day , you’ll discover that you no longer feel the heaviness in your chest whenever you think about that person who hurt you. Thoughts about them will no longer make you anxious, angry or regretful. You’ll realize you’re finally free, and it will feel so good.
Being overly considerate isn’t healthy. You’ll end up people pleasing, avoiding conflict, disregarding your boundaries and more. Stop considering everyone else for a second, and start considering yourself.
Shoutout to every person who’s depression and trauma was so severe that it caused them to self isolate and kill their social life. You aren’t a bad person for recovering and trying to rebuild yourself, it takes years.
compliments on your appearance are cool‚ but when someone compliments you as a person, the way your mind works‚ the way you carry yourself‚ how attentive you are, how calm your energy feels, and how beautiful your heart is—those are top tier compliments...they just hit different.