Micro cheating is cheating. If you're talking to someone else without your partner knowing, then that's cheating. If you're going out with someone who's not a friend or not blood-related and your partner doesn't know, that's also cheating. If you're joking around with someone in a flirty way, that's cheating too.If you're flooding someone's inbox with messages without your partner knowing, that's cheating as well, especially if you're deleting the conversation because you don't want your partner to get mad. Well, that's also cheating, darling.
Women literally cannot understand anything that isn’t directly tied to being a woman, which is why I think the whole idea of emotional intelligence and emotional maturity is often misused.
To them “emotional maturity” sounds like, “I don’t understand masculinity or what it entails, so you need to think and act more like a woman for me to understand you.”
That’s why you will see women encouraging men to be more vulnerable, emotional, and expressive….not just because it benefits the
man, but because it makes his behavior easier for them to interpret through a framework they already understand.
This is why when single women raise their sons, they encourage emotional habits more common in girls, which can lead to boys who are overly emotional or dependent…often called “mama’s boys.”
Men, on the other hand, usually understand both male and female expectations better, which is why fathers tend to guide their children more clearly.
This is why strong father-child relationships always shape kids in traditional ways: daddy’s girls grow into more feminine women, and father’s sons grow into more masculine men.
Obsess. For f*ck sakes. You only get one life. Don’t screw it up by being normal. Go all in. Act like a psycho. Let people call you insane. Please. I beg you. Obsession is the path.
5 BOUNDARIES THAT ACTUALLY
WORK WITH AVOIDANT
I loved an avoidant for 2 years, and
boundaries are one of the MAIN things
that fixed my relationships.
Here are 5 boundaries I learn to set the
hard way:
The child you want tomorrow is created by how you respond today.
1. If you want a confident child:
Praise their effort, not just the result.
2. If you want an open-book child:
Listen to them without judgment.
3. If you want a respectful child:
Speak to them with respect first.
4. If you want a patient child:
Show patience when they test you.
5. If you want an honest child:
Make them feel safe telling the truth.
6. If you want a strong child:
Support them when they fail.
7. If you want a kind child:
Let them see your kindness daily.
8. If you want an emotionally secure child:
Stay calm during their emotional storms.
9. If you want a brave child:
Encourage them to try, even when afraid.
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