Hi, I'm Dan & I live in Chicago :-) I'm a friendly person who loves martial arts, animals, and stories. My old (small) profile pic was over ten years old.
@THELADYLOLLY I think that it has been underrated, "personal assistant duties" done by subs. When these are done well, they can make every part of the Domme's life better.
@Nglmia_x Some men- a lot of us, I think- are not at all uncomfortable helping women with this (even though we don't understand what it's like, to go through it). When I did, the specifics didn't matter- just that she was suffering and I should do what I could to alleviate that.
@elenaaellen I can't speak for all of us, but maybe you might try a surprise dinner? (and not necessarily cooked; just bring him something scrumptious, or surprise him by taking him out someplace nice, in the middle of the day).
@EmilyPiperrxx I don't know. I'm not sure that there's a single answer but having the kind of hearts that they have- open and giving- is a big part of it. Personally, when it's happened, the solution I think is right is not to close off your heart, but to keep it open.
@michellexotter I know what you mean. I'm not burned out on it, but I don't like it. When people have disagreements, there are better ways to solve them.
@devildom066 There are, but I know that it's no reflection on the good ones, the real ones. I completely know what you mean, though- it's not right or fair, for the majority of the Dommes to look bad, because of a few scammers.