I have a very genuine question.
Why are human beings obsessed with external validation? What is so broken inside of us that we must rely on others to tell us we are worthy, beautiful, capable etc?
The downside of talking to many girls is that you'll inevitably miss some good leads and won't end up nowhere with them because you don't really give a fuck and you just forget to reply, don't really insist, don't wanna make any efforts since you're already okay.
When you don't have options you focus more and give more attention to them whereas when you're spoilt with choice you're treating everyone with minimal interest so you'll lose girls that have potential and then you'll see them in one year on social media and be like "Wtf she's so hot, could've had this one" 😃
The winning move is often to deliberately limit active conversations to the ones showing real potential and give them the focused effort you would if options were scarce.
Namaste.
I hate the fact that once you question a Nigerian’s intellect their automatic response is to start comparing how much money they have to you. So because you’re rich you think you can’t be stupid?