My life got a lot better when I viewed every problem as a skill issue. Out of shape? Skill issue. Ugly bank account? Skill issue. Anxious thoughts? Skill issue. I affirmed to myself these would go away if I got better. And magically, they did, once “I” did.
Half the time conversations happen on this app, it’s an avenue for people to display superior morality. And it’s absolutely crazy because if we were all applying this morality in real life the way we posture online, our society wouldn’t be this jagajaga.
If you traveled around the country more you’d see and understand the things people hold and see as big deals - culturally & socially. If you only move from Nairobi to other big Cities or towns and never explore your own country you’ll never understand any historical moments.