@AntiCommieBecca Whoever is telling them either of those things doesn’t understand what marriage is. It is rooted in a mutual lifelong vow- to love, honor and cherish. The ENTIRE FUCKING POINT of the vow is to fence off the matter of how you “feel” on any given day as entirely beside the point
@whinemoreplease 🤣dude, every married guy I know who had an affair had neither of those. Fuck, I know a dude who is 5’7” ~200lb who had a *series* of affairs (5+) while married to a beautiful woman.He is also not remotely wealthy. All you need to successfully have an affair is sheer audacity
@MizShannonS The fuck they don’t. It is intrinsic to a vow of sexual exclusivity. The corollary value to a lifelong vow of sexual *exclusivity* is mutual sexual *availability*.What kind of retarded ass deal would it be to vow sexual exclusivity if one party can nuke availability unilaterally?
@FratellisDragon@Melody211939673 Oh we’re using hormones and sex drive to erase accountability to our vows to love honor and cherish now? So when a 50 yr old married dude with a high libido has a 20 yr old side chick that’s totes cool cause hormones/drive. Cool cool.
@Melody211939673@EddyFTL@Un_Ortho_Doxxx “He quit trying to be intimate with me and I’m happier” holy shit just shoot the guy already. I would not treat a dog I hated that way.
@girlfromsouthie@MonicaMAlmaguer I read that story three times and I can’t find a single implication even that she has physical difficulty having sex. She just “doesn’t always feel like it” when he does. What a weird idea to interject here. Yeah, if you are having physical difficulty having sex, figure it out
@RudeOnion@Z4BTC_ What a stupid fucking take. The primary thing that distinguishes my relationship with my wife from all of the other female relationships in my life is intimacy, primarily sexual intimacy. It is exclusive to her, by vow and duty.
@Z4BTC_ This has nothing to do with “attraction” and everything to do with fidelity to a vow that also had nothing to do with “attraction”. A vow of sexual exclusivity necessarily entails a corollary vow of sexual availability. And both of those go both ways. Not: “fuck, regardless” but-
@DroverSabr54018 I mean maybe? But tons of guys have platonic friends who are women. I’ve always been able to make friends with women faaaaar easier than with guys. But if I’m *dating* a woman, I intend for that relationship to include sex at some point (I’m a Christian so, after marriage)
@emilykmay@Neo_Paulinite Now do “hey guys are literally physically made to penetrate as many women as possible all of the time so unless you understand what having that biological drive is like you can’t say shit about serially cheating” same energy sis, and it’s dumb.
@MeghanEMurphy “I vow before God to limit my sexual expression to you and you alone for the rest of my life”
Women: “Yeah, but that doesn’t like… yknow put any obligations on me obviously. HE just has to keep HIS end of the bargain.” Fucking what?
@MeghanEMurphy “There was only two outcomes”. I mean, there’s a blindingly obvious third possibility that would have solved the problem and resulted in both of them feeling satisfied and happy in their marriage. “He finally gave up, now I’m happy” is a fucking *hell* of a flex.
@just_mindy From my earliest memory, my parents without panic or fanfare, taught me that if *anyone* ever tried to touch or speak to me about my private parts, I was to go immediately Defcon 1, no matter what, no matter where, no matter who. Volume and violence. You can pedproof your kids.
@LauraRbnsn I grew up in a community packed to the gills with such women, so idk. Maybe get out more? I’m not claiming it’s common, but it’s damn sure not unheard of.And it’s very much presented as “what a Christ following community should be” not “this thing exists everywhere automatically”