repetition is the only language your brain understands. neuroplasticity doesn't care about your potential or your dreams, it only counts how many times you fired the same circuit today.
As a man,
When you finally get your own apartment,
Kindly entertain the possibility that a friend may need to squat with you for a few days, weeks, or even months.
When that happens, give that guest or friend of yours the best hospitality you can afford.
There will be days you'll miss your privacy, but never give your friend an attitude or make him feel like an unwanted guest.
No temporary inconvenience is worth sacrificing a genuine friendship.
Most times, squatting is only temporary, and it may be one of the few moments in life when your friend truly needs you.
There will be frustrating days, but never fall into the temptation of talking down to your friend or making him feel like a burden.
Never deny a man a space to rest his head.
Today it's him. Tomorrow it could be you.
Be kind.
Mwanaume sasa mbona upoteze job ya Kes 72,000 monthly consistent income
All because umeshikwa ukijaribu kuibia your employer Kes 10,000?
Sasa 10,000 is worth rendering you redundant?
Kuna greed, incompetence, halafu kuna ujinga
Hiyo yako ni ujinga wa hali yaa juu saidi PUGA!
you might need these hacks:
1. when in an open space, remember the invisible guest theory
2. visit the apartment at night, not during the day before renting
3. when gas is available, refill your tank
4. stay busy in shared spaces
5. keep one serious outfit ready at all times
6. always carry some cash with you even when you don't need to spend
7. if you want to multiply your wealth fast, be selfish like the devil
8. in group arguments, listen more than you speak
9. first month in a new place, be friendly. after that, be selective
10. when you start making good money, keep liquid cash at home
11. when selling stuff, let the seller bid first
bookmark this and share it with someone who'll thank you later, buena suerte 👍
& if you check yourself and realize you come from an average family that isn’t supportive enough, that your parents aren’t also financially comfortable
pay close attention;
if you know that within 24 hrs, your entire family coming together still couldn’t raise at least $10,000 in this economy, stay out of trouble. i’m telling you that for free. you have no business chasing endless enjoyment or la vida loca. your place is on the battlefield, working relentlessly on yourself.
i will always tell the younger generation the truth: poverty is far more damaging than most people understand.
if a sibling falls critically ill and the entire family still can’t raise enough money for treatment or surgery, that’s a reality you cannot ignore. i’ve also heard of people who secured life changing opportunities abroad, even free visas or contracts but lost em cos they couldn’t afford the flight ticket and their family couldn’t support.
if deep down you know this could be your reality or fate, make it your mission to break that cycle.
there should be days you need to go totally offline, switch off your phone, ignore distractions and focus completely on becoming better than you were yesterday. the consequences of being a young man without money or a strong support system can be brutal. that’s why, while you’re still coming up, treat your growth like a responsibility, not an option.
walk with me to learn
buena suerte as you do so 👍
RULES OF LIVING WITH PEOPLE
1. When you meet young people - INSPIRE THEM.
2. When you meet children - EDUCATE THEM.
3. When you meet old people - HELP THEM.
4. When you meet wise people - STUDY THEM.
5. When you meet leaders - HONOUR THEM.
6. When you meet foolish people - AVOID THEM.
7. When you meet humble people - TREASURE THEM.
8. When you meet arrogant people - IGNORE THEM.
9. When you meet gracious people - EMULATE THEM.
10. When you meet aspirational people - ELEVATE THEM.
11. When you meet strong people - SUPPORT THEM.
12. When you meet godly people - BLESS THEM.
13. When you meet elderly people - RESPECT THEM.
14. When you meet weak people - STRENGTHEN THEM.
15. When you meet hardworking people - ENCOURAGE THEM.
16. When you meet kind people - ESTEEM THEM.
17. When you meet Honest people -
PROMOTE THEM.
18. When you meet virtuous people - REWARD THEM.
19. When you meety evil people - EVADE THEM.
20. And in all situation “ Watch, Pray and wish everyone well.
Declan Rice, because of what you just did to Thomas Partey, I will forever respect you! In fact, come to Chelsea so that you can win the Champions League with us in two seasons from now.