I’ve never seen anyone tell a man to endure a bad wife, as soon he has a bad wife or he start complaining about his wife,the first thing he’s asked to do is “leave that woman and marry another woman”, nobody is asking him to pray or fast for his wife or be patient with his wife but when a woman marries a bad Husband everyone is suddenly telling her to pray, the church tells her to endure and fast and give him time to change.
They’re telling her she’s a mother and men are big babies so she need to treat him as one, she should nurture a grown man,it’s the reason why they associate endurance,patience and long suffering with the female gender
Why’s endurance meant for women and men are told to love themselves and never tolerate any forms of disrespect from a woman?, if you like endure rubbish from a man, he wouldn’t tolerate the same from you.
I watched a woman cry for almost 2 hours at her POS stand because of ₦20,000 💔
At first, I thought someone had stolen from her.
But no. A customer transferred ₦20,000 to her account, collected the cash, and left. Minutes later, she received a debit alert—the customer had reversed the transfer.
She tried calling the number. It was switched off. She checked the account details nothing, the man had disappeared.
Now, ₦20,000 may not seem like much to some. But for her, it was days of profit. I watched her sit there crying, saying:
“How do I explain this to my children? This is the money I use to feed them.”
That’s when it hit me. Many people are not poor because they are lazy. They are one bad day away from breaking.
One scam. One sickness. One mistake. One emergency.
So please, if life is treating you kindly right now, be grateful. And if you do business with people hustling to survive, don’t cheat them.
You may be stealing money from them… but you could also be stealing peace from an entire family. 💔