Destiny Is All

Here for a good time, not a long time.

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@xXshaurizardXx @soft_fox_lad you're in the US, you can buy pretty much all of them from bestbuy

https://t.co/VT7kFNJD82

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@xXshaurizardXx @soft_fox_lad there are like 10 X2 laptops on the market that you can buy today, not sure why you think it's "to be launched" still

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@never_released @xXshaurizardXx this is to save their N1x powered Surface Ultra from embarassment, otherwise they will be in a situation where the Surface Laptop is more powerful than the much much more expensive Surface Laptop Ultra.

[🤍✨Dipshit Usagi✨🤍 @420mercymain69]

My statement regarding Graham Platner

[🤍✨Dipshit Usagi✨🤍 @420mercymain69]

I very briefly was talking to and then consequently seeing Graham Platner from about February 2021 until mid July 2021 when it was revealed to me that he was cheating on his fiancé at the time. He knew about the fucking tattoo.

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@CardNiti how

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@SavingsSimpl how did you use wallet with gold coin?

[Max Weinbach @mweinbach]

https://t.co/HR5lopcZnM

[Lyndsey Fifield @lyndseyfifield]

Anyone who has ever extracted themselves from a relationship with a narcissistic abuser knows it isn’t clean or easy.

I cringe remembering how many times I tried to play the “cool girl” or fawn in response to what was clearly abusive, coercively controlling behavior by Graham.

I also know how dangerous it is to become the target of a narcissist — so even long after our relationship ended I continued to be upbeat any time he reached out, though I would also immediately shut down any attempts on his part to initiate flirting or romanticizing of the past.

Yes, the day I saw him announce he was running I wanted to make sure people knew he had a Nazi tattoo — and I was terrified he would find out it was me.

But of course he knew it was me.

What’s ironic is I absolutely never would have shared my story if he hadn’t been relentlessly attacking my character behind the scenes for months once the tattoo story came out.

I tried to signal that I wasn’t the source and stayed completely silent about him on social media even as most of my friends posted regularly about what a bad person he is.

But then in early April the New York Times came to me. I asked how they got my number. I said I was not interested in sharing my story. They said but wait—there are other women. Women terrified to tell their stories, too, and you need to band together. WE will help you. We will protect you. Men can’t keep getting away with this.

Hours before their first call to me I saw Eric Swalwell’s name plate get removed from his office door in Cannon. It felt like fate.

I welcomed the two journalists into my home days later, nervous and overwhelmed. Justin Fairfax had just murdered his wife and himself the previous day and even conservative pundits were conjecturing that “if only those women hadn’t accused him of abuse, this never would have happened…”

But I told them my story. I let them take pictures of my diary pages. I sent them screenshots of messages and gave them phone numbers and contacts. It was excruciating. I was surprised by what details I remembered, and as I poured through old messages I was horrified by how much I had forgotten.

I explained very clearly that, like many women abused by their partners, I had not told anyone about his violence at the time—I had covered for and defended it. I accepted his earnest apologies. They said that’s fine because the diary entries and my on the record story was enough.

They connected me to two of the other victims so we wouldn’t feel so alone. I insisted to each of them that I trusted the NYT journalists and that we were doing the right thing despite their (sadly very accurate) sense that something was wrong.

One of the victims and I realized our relationships with Graham overlapped completely - he had been cheating on both of us the entire time we were together.

I should note here that my life is just… beautiful. These are the best years of my life. Raising two young girls in a safe, beautiful neighborhood where I work from home and shuffle my children from dance classes and soccer to church events — I am blessed far beyond what I deserve with wonderful friends and family and the most loving, brilliant husband in the world. Why would I blow my life up like this? Why would I risk the psychotic doxxing from violent leftist activists?

Because while I have been terrified to come forward I decided this was the “hard right thing” to do. The guilt of staying silent has nagged me.

Most therapists recommend a “gray rock” approach to extracting yourself from narcissistic abuse — it works really well, but it is a gift to the abuser, allowing them to persist in their delusion that they’ve done nothing wrong.

I couldn’t stay silent as he continued to lie and lie and lie. I want my daughters to boldly speak out if they’re ever abused as I was.

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@RichCarlsen @CoreyWriting Yes they will.

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@michrules32 @CoreyWriting No on both counts. They have been attacking Afghanistan continuously and killing their kids in the process.

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@RichCarlsen @CoreyWriting It's their Independence Day Parade, of course they will. The current regime which is currently bombing Afghanistan enjoys majority support from their citizens and diaspora.

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@michrules32 @CoreyWriting Yes. They literally bombed a drug rehabilitation center in Afghanistan not even two months ago.

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@SweetSavvySavio @CoreyWriting Yes. They literally bombed a drug rehabilitation center in Afghanistan not even two months ago.

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@RichCarlsen @CoreyWriting You think the Pak diaspora in US is against the current ruling Pakistan regime?

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@Pauliewollie @ex__republican @CoreyWriting US tax dollars did pay for it, they sent their navy to help Pakistan.

[Kat Rosenfield @katrosenfield]

The funny thing is that if I wrote Platner as a fictional character, my editor would be like "look, your villain can have either a Nazi tattoo *or* a porta-potty masturbation habit, but not both"

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@sondesix we saw in PhoneBuff's speed test exactly how behind it is

[Androidheadline @Androidheadline]

Lenovo Yoga Slim 7x Gen 11 Review: The Snapdragon X2 Elite Just Changed the Game https://t.co/ZGudgrX73q #android

[Destiny Is All @DestinyIsSmall]

@never_released @kellabyte even in Spec X925 is quite behind