Giving your partner alone time and space would solve so many issues. Y’all are just so obsessed with this culture of being up under somebody 24/7. Suffocation makes shit expire at a faster rate. Relax and just be by yourself. It’s okay to maintain your individuality.
“Don’t ask friends for help moving as an adult” “don’t ask friends to do a potluck as an adult” you can literally ask me to hold your hand at the dentist and I will do it
Hot take: I actually like when people bring up how they relate to my situation. I don’t assume they’re trying to steal the spotlight or one-up me. I see it as a person trying to help however they can by connecting & being vulnerable w me, as we should if we want community