School of Nursing (RN)
School of Midwifery (RM)
Postgraduate Diploma in Education (PGCert)
BSc in Nursing
MSc Healthcare Management and Leadership
PhD in Nursing
Lecturer, Nursing Education and Administration
Associate Professor of Nursing
Dean, College of Nursing Science
You cannot:
Work full time, raise children, keep a spotless home, show up fully in your marriage, maintain friendships, stay fit, build wealth, read books, pursue hobbies, serve only home cooked meals, answer every email, and still make the 3:30 school pickup.
That standard was created to keep you exhausted and blaming yourself. Let it go.
I’m one of those who trolled you
Do I have G Wagon? No
Can I buy it if I want to? Yes
Will your G wagon vote for you? No
Are the people happy that you lost? Yes
Okay lemme elaborate for the youngins who follow me. Long read but I’ll address how it affects both.
A woman who really likes you is wrapped around your thumb, she’s attuned to your mood; your laughter, frowns, fears etc matter to her sm, she wants you to talk to her, she’s upset by your silent treatment because she GAF, so at first she’s very worried, trying to placate you, but if it becomes “PROLONGED”, she eventually tires out and gets used to it.
That face that lights up at the thought of opening the door to you suddenly stays fixated on her phone no matter how much noise you make when opening the door, she’s literally not even looking at your face anymore, you bang doors, go out at night, make shady calls to make her jealous etc but she’s literally gotten used to it.
She’s not angry or sad, she’s just used to the New Normal. You realize you’ve lost that respect, adulation, excitement and now need to work 10x harder than Vinicius Jr to win it back.
That is why you should not fuck with things or people you don’t want to lose, save your “hardman” & “idgaf” for stuff you actually don’t mind losing.
And oh on your side; prolonged silent treatment increases the likelihood of resentment, the fuel that helps keep your affection burning is no longer there so each day dawns with her nearing “roommate” status in your head.
It’s such a lose-lose endeavor for both parties, I do not recommend. From experience I now recommend talking & quickly resolving things like motherfuckin adults.