ever watched someone you love on his way to crashing into a brick wall while yelling at the world that he doesn't want anyone to help stop the car or move the wall?
#BatmanGoesDown#toughlove#helpless#trainwreck
@fin772 Had a few dates with a lovely 26yr old Match who was way more mature than my 50yr old ex...it didn't bug us...but we got weird looks from a lot of people around us which made both of us uncomfortable
Old Match resurrected from the dead, apologizing profusely for disappearing again - an STI situation made him withdraw. Idk, I feel like covid has made everyone a little squirrelly & compassion is the way to go. I'm gonna forgive him if only cuz he's a fallible human & so am I
@grow_your_wings blocked on sm along with his family but only recently blocked on text. Now I'm reading about NPD it's crazy that he is a textbook worthy case right down to texting me on special days knowing it would throw me off
@grow_your_wings Neither did my ex. When I apologized to my 13 year old for failing to keep the family together because he lost his father, he replied "I never had a real father - you were both Mum and Dad to me", I realized how alone I'd been not only in my marriage but in parenting as well