dolphin

just an old punk mom, trying to make sense of this weird, new world

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@AnitaAnandMP Costs of living have doubled in just a few years. You are all ignorant.

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

Yes! This!

[Pleasure Architect @11Architect11]

75% of women experience responsive desire meaning they don't feel spontaneous urges for sex the way men do.

they feel desire AFTER stimulation begins not before. every man who interprets her lack of initiation as rejection is misreading normal female biology as personal failure

researcher Emily Nagoski identified two desire models. spontaneous desire appears out of nowhere. you see something attractive and your body responds. this is how most men experience desire. responsive desire emerges in response to stimulation already happening. the desire comes after the touching starts not before

this fundamental mismatch creates the most common sexual conflict in relationships. he wants her to initiate or show desire first. she rarely does. he interprets this as low attraction. she's confused because once things start she's fully engaged and enthusiastic

- responsive desire means she may not "feel like it" before intimacy begins but becomes fully aroused once the right stimulation starts. this is not reluctance. this is how her desire system functions by design
- initiating non-sexual physical affection without expectation is the most effective way to activate responsive desire. massage. playing with her hair. holding her. the body warms up. desire follows. expecting her to arrive pre-aroused is expecting spontaneous desire from a responsive system
- stress is the primary suppressor of responsive desire. cortisol blocks the arousal pathway at the hormonal level. reducing her daily stress is more effective foreplay than any physical technique
- the statement "I want you but there's no agenda" is paradoxically more arousing than "let's have sex" because it offers desire without creating performance pressure
- understanding this one concept eliminates the most destructive thought pattern in relationships: "she doesn't want me." she does. the activation sequence is different. learn the sequence and the response follows

this single piece of sexual psychology would save more relationships than any technique or position guide. the desire isn't absent. the ignition sequence is different from yours. once you understand this you never misread her again

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@Wyd_eshuu Separate beds, even better, separate rooms.

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@GrowSmarter_x Boo fucking hoo. There's more to a relationship then just rutting like beasts. There's more ways to show affection then wet dick.
Grow up.

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@madiwildd Like watching monkeys masturbate.
Boring and kinda gross.

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@CTOTHELOS77 #4. Anytime. Any season.

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@LaciMarieKnight Crispy chili garlic beef. In lettuce wraps. So it's healthy.

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@burritofetus We ate out all the time. Most of us Xers had just one mom working fulltime. And it was super cheap back then.

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@truckdriverpleb @BananaKingonX @grok Videos showing motorcyclists heading to Dearborn to "clean up" because of the heavy arab population.
They circulate every now and then but it's all fake hype

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@MarkJCarney Oh we know Carney. We know.

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@RealisticPoetry Use your landmarks

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@OliLondonTV He's so freaking smug.
God he'd be intolerable.

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

This

[middleclassparty @middle_class_us]

The middle class has become the most efficient budget cutter in America.

People have already canceled subscriptions.

They've stopped eating out.

They've delayed vacations, skipped new clothes, and put off buying cars.

At some point, there isn't anything left to cut.

The conversation has to stop being about spending less and start being about why working full-time isn't enough anymore.

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@MasterMaliq One of my old bosses was Muslim, he bought the business from the OG boss.
One day he called for me, while patting his thigh, like you call a dog.
He always said how much he needed my help to learn the business after my boss left.
But he still thought of me as a dog.

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@JayGenXer I see this everyday in downtown Ottawa.....one constantly has to look down to avoid the urine and shit everywhere from homeless addicts

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

Leo DiCaprio teams with Jeff and Lauren Sanchez Bezos on $200 million plan to save 100 endangered species | Fortune https://t.co/4sIQVtvP7s

Oh ffs. Tell me how you think your god without telling me.
Vapid egotists
.

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

This is fuckin hilarious. OMG!!!
Lmao!

[🇨🇦Unacceptable Canadian Girl🇨🇦 @AreOhEssEyeEe]

He gave AI anxiety by telling it he got swallowed by a whale.

😂😂😂💀

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

Classic

[Massimo @Rainmaker1973]

When you find out your best friend is better at something than you

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

https://t.co/4vFpwQhQrH

Exactly. Perfectly articulated.

[dolphin @DolphinCjmk]

@TaraBull