People be so shocked when you got a black hetero masculine father who unapologetically loves and supports you.
If anything, he the one who that would box niggas for disrespecting me frfr. Like, no shade, but some of us have normal loving parents.
I mean no one’s obligated, but also, let people celebrate themselves (especially on bdays) and make a big deal of it if they want.
I think it’s very normal for anyone of any age to want that. If you don’t, then don’t. Trying to stop the ones who do is a lil weird to me.
This is genuinely one of the saddest things I have ever seen. There is nothing else I can say other than this beautiful child deserved a fucking life, something this white supremacist fascist society took from him.
I cannot relate to this discourse cause me and my friends have literally argued men down about not wanting to include themselves in friend/group dynamics.
My friends are my family, and my partner developing a similar relationship with them is mandatory to be in my life.
the hell are yall talking about? if he wasn’t my friend prior to them being in a relationship, why would he be my friend now?? he’s a by proxy acquaintance, if that relationship ends he essentially dies to me.
If you’re making babies with someone who already has kids (and is an involved parent), it kinda comes with the territory.
What happens if they end up living with said half-siblings or their shared parent passes? Already having a sibling bond would probably be helpful.
Now am I mean for saying the solo trip discourse reeks of insecurity and unhealthy anxious attachment issues? Which isn’t surprising cause that’s true of so much media centering romance, but y’all know you don’t own your partner right?
Well no. Some of us were raised in homes where bigotry of any kind was unacceptable.
I am by no means perfect but certain attitudes just have never made sense to me because of how I was raised.