Neuroscience shows that you must avoid making important decisions under intense pressure. Because, under pressure, brain areas responsible for logic (prefrontal cortex) hold less power over your reasoning. Instead, your reasoning is overtaken by the amygdala and other fast-firing areas: a constant threat assessment aimed at minimizing loss. It doesn't strive for the best outcome. It just aims to survive. And these behaviors are used against you almost daily.
You cannot father your child well if you never first fathered the mother.
Fatherhood does not begin at childbirth. It begins in courtship.
A man begins fatherhood in how he leads a woman.
For a woman is often a man’s first encounter with the psychology of children.
Your woman is, in a sense, your first child before your first child arrives.
Read that twice.
The distance between female nature and child nature is minute.
And much of what a man learns about guidance, correction, mood, dependence, resistance, and tenderness is first learned there.
Through woman.
This is why the choice of woman is a fatherhood decision.
Not just a romantic one.
A man who joins himself to a woman too ideologically hardened, too socially adulterated, too burdened by rebellion and damage, may lose access to that schooling.
For where the child in the woman has died, a classroom has closed.
And some lessons about children become inaccessible.
Then he meets fatherhood underprepared.
Because he never practiced on feminine nature. He only negotiated pathology.
A poor wife - belligerent woman, feminist, dam@ged single mother, retired wh@re - can produce an inadequate father.
Not merely a troubled home.
A diminished father.
Because for these women their inner child is dead. And so is the man's opportunity to learn about children through the feminine.
For fatherhood is not first biology.
It is formed authority.
Formed authority begins where a man is given room to lead.
A good woman gives a man occasion to practice stewardship. Influence. Formation.
That is preparation for children.
The b@d woman doesn't offer such.
So choose a woman not only for love, but for the father she allows you become.
Because many men fail their children long before the children are born.
The fool wants every move to feel good, but the wise accepts boredom, delay, secrecy, repetition, and temporary misunderstanding, because he is not trying to win the mood of the day; he is trying to win the position that makes future moves easier.
This pastor kwa metro anasema vile today's Israel is not the Israel in the bible. Anasema Israel was born by USA through UN, for the first time ndio I am paying attention to matatu pastors. Naona nikitoa sadaka huku😂"Israel is a puppet of the west"
What rich families really educate their boys on:
-never look expensive look unbothered.
-don't explain yourself, power never over-explains.
-keep assets boring and pleasures private.
-learn which laws matter and which ones are for poor people only.
-never fall in love before you understand leverage.
-your surname opens doors. Don't embarrass it.
-cash is for emergencies. Credit is for opportunities.
-friends are categorized: useful, neutral, entertainment.
-if something is loud, emotional, or viral, its already a bad deal.
-always know who actually owns the room. It's rarely the loudest person.
-don't argue with broke people about money. Don't argue with emotional people about logic.
-learn taxes before you learn multiplication tables properly.
-you don't work hard forever. You work hard early to stop later.
-never let pleasure habits become visible patterns.
-reputation is currency. One scandal costs more than ten failures.
-silence is safer than honesty in most rooms.
-if you can't control your sleep, hunger, lust, or temper, you can't control money.
-marry someone who improves your bloodline, not your mood.
-keep one legal problem away from disaster at all times.
-always have an exit plan. For jobs, cities, county, relationships, even friendships.
Just rules whispered, not posted.
MrBeast reveals the secret to getting millions of views on social media
“A big part of getting 100,000,000 views on a video is whether it’s something someone has seen before or not. There’s this analogy I like to use, if you’re driving down the road and see a cow, you’re probably not going to look at it. Who cares, you see them all the time. But if you’re driving down the road and see a purple cow you’re going to look like four times and remember it”
“It’s kind of the same way on social media. If you’re scrolling through videos and it’s something you’ve seen before it’s like seeing a regular cow. But if it’s a video you’ve never seen before, like putting a bunker underground and having two people live in it, that’s the equivalent of a purple cow on social media”
“Make your ideas the purple cow, don’t just be the cow”