"May I touch you"
"Can I take this off"
"Can I kiss you"
"You ready?"
"Let me know if anything doesn't feel good & we'll stop okay?"
"Can you breathe? Okay good"
"Too hard?"
"Want me to loosen it a little?"
Checking in with your sub is both hot and necessary.
Before the night ends, it's been officially a year since I left my abuser. I have had a lot of triggers, PTSD episodes ect since I've been gone. He's caused me so much trauma, pain and I'm slowly healing.
#Imasurvivor#DomesticViolence#Warrior
@yeahitsheidi As someone with their own and imperfect addiction struggles: Super proud of you. I know that sometimes even a single day feels like a miracle.