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[Codie Sanchez @Codie_Sanchez]

Joe Rogan has the best take on why you need to cut negative people out of your life:

* if you hang out with idiots, you will become one...

[the artidote @TheArtidote]

Now THAT is a reframe.

[LED @mrledtasso]

olmak istediğin kişi gibi davranmalısın, olmayı beklememelisin.

hep diyorum, en iyi yol bu.

[gomi @xoxogomi]

you're not unlucky. you're just expecting the worst and your brain is delivering. when you expect failure, you hesitate. when you expect rejection, you stop trying. when you expect everything to go wrong, you start treating every obstacle as proof that you were right. but when you start expecting things to work out, you take more chances, notice opportunities, and stop giving up before life even gives you a chance. sometimes, the first step to changing your life is changing what you expect from it.

[BOSS @thebeautyofsaas]

most people spend their whole lives searching for happiness, only to realize that most of it comes from the same things they enjoyed since childhood

there is a clear connection between your past and where you are now... yet most never think about it

[High Yield Harry @HighyieldHarry]

Succession is so damn good

[Dylan O'Sullivan @DylanoA4]

Every now and again I go back to this passage from Chesterton and it just gets better each time

[Electra @Electrarythm]

When you’re certain you’ll win, you give it your all, but the moment you doubt it, you hold yourself back, too afraid to risk it all, because the less convinced you are, the less you’ll put on the line for the prize

[Dylan O'Sullivan @DylanoA4]

There comes a day in every life, often far too young, when the desire to forge new memories fades behind the comfort of revisiting old ones

this is a kind of death, and you must fight against it with everything you have

[Praetor @FourVork]

The secret to success according to John McAfee

1) Success means naturally floating to the top rather than struggling through constant trial and error.

2) People are like balloons tethered to the bottom of the ocean by negative emotions and qualities (fear, resentment, anger, disappointment, etc.).

3) Hard work and grinding alone won’t free you if those emotional anchors remain in place.

4) Cut the chains by immediately releasing negatives. get over irritations, arguments, or setbacks in about 10 seconds instead of stewing for hours or days.

5) Anything in the past no longer exists, so stop carrying resentment or anger about it.

Once you stop feeding those negative forces, you naturally rise to the top without the constant struggle.

[JeRRy MMXM @JeRRyMMXM]

The video I watched every morning At 7 AM for 7 months.

[Ｗ 𝗜 𝗦 𝗘 𝗖 𝗢 𝗡 𝗡 𝗘 𝗖 𝗧 𝗢 𝗥 ™ 💬 @wiseconnector]

Something to think about.

[Lima @limalemonnn]

this is insane. i genuinely don't understand why ambitious people aren't shown this lecture before their careers start consuming their entire lives.

clayton christensen spent his career studying why successful companies collapse. in his final class, he asked students to apply the theory to themselves: if you keep allocating your time the same way, what life are you actually building?

he had already seen the answer in his own harvard mba class. everyone looked successful at the fifth reunion; by the 10th, 15th, 20th, and 25th, many were unhappy, divorced, and living far from their children.

work shows you the score immediately. close a sale, ship a product, finish a presentation, earn a promotion, get paid.

an hour with your child may produce nothing you can measure today; it may take 20 years to understand what that hour built. so the next free hour goes back to work, one rational decision at a time.

this is how people build lives they never planned: through hundreds of right decisions that lead in the wrong direction, day after day.

money, titles, and headcount are easy to count. christensen believed a life should be measured by the people who became better because you were there.

he died in 2020.

one question remains: if someone saw only where your time, energy, and attention went this year, what would they think actually mattered to you?

the full 19-minute lecture is in the video below.

[Rebel Wolves 🐺🐺🎮 @RebelWolvesDevs]

In today’s episode, we go back to the very beginning. What are the inspirations behind The Blood of Dawnwalker?

#RebelWolves #Dawnwalker

[Rebel Wolves 🐺🐺🎮 @RebelWolvesDevs]

Walk down memory lane with Konrad, our Game Director, as he talks about his first computer systems and games!

#RebelWolves #Dawnwalker

[Ben X @Benn_X1]

This is my greatest fear. I know what I am capable of achieving, and I have seen people around me who are extremely talented, brilliant and had so much potential, yet they did not live up to their expectations.
If only they had taken life a little bit more seriously and were intentional about what they did every day, they’d have had a better life.

I don’t want to look back one day realising I could have been better if only I pushed harder. My philosophy in life is to sieze every moment like it’s the only shot I’ll ever have and make the most of it so that if I ever have to look back, given similar conditions, there should be really nothing within my power I could have done better.

[kashvi @kashvi]

this is exactly how you become the dream version of yourself btw

[scar @imfat]

It took me 29 years to realize that the cheat code to life is just having confidence.

[ashe @ashebytes]

you've gotta be more afraid of wasting your life than embarrassing yourself

[Silentum 🦁 @xKhalifan]

SHYNESS MAKES YOU LOOK WEAK

Be arrogant. Confidence is key to everything. Social skills are important. You’re more than enough. Don’t be afraid to look stupid. Ask questions. Get what you want. Let them judge you. It’s all in your head. Speak up. Share what’s on your mind. Your opinions and preferences matter.

When you were a kid, being shy was considered something normal. But the moment you grow up, when you have ambitions, dreams to fulfill, and desires to satisfy - nobody will come and ask what you want.

👉 You must let the whole world know.

Otherwise, you’ll keep replaying scenarios in your head while lying in bed trying to fall asleep. Thoughts like, “I should’ve said this.” “I could’ve had that.” “I embarrassed myself… i feel so much shame” will consume your energy, and you’ll wake up tired and broken. You’ll visualize the life you want, wishing you could spend more time in your dreams, because the lack of inner work makes life after waking up feel wasted.

All because of one fragile obstacle: caring too much about what others think of you.

Just go do something unusual in public. Nothing bad will happen to you. Make the outside world your training ground, where there’s no Final Boss, only people passing by that you’ll probably never see again.

Opportunities will be everywhere. The people you resonate with most, the love of your life, meaning in what you do, an endless amount of interests are all on the other side of the bridge.

The only thing you need to cross it is delusional confidence, and not treating every stranger seriously with their useless opinions.