happy pride to everybody who saw the predominant ways of the world and knew, somewhere deep and undeniable inside of them, there was another way to be.
happy pride to everybody not just carrying queer legacies but also forging new paths, knowing the costs
thank you
Some of you have forgotten that only three years ago you were perfectly capable of writing an essay, writing a eulogy, telling a bedtime story to a child, and it should worry you that powerful companies have convinced us we can’t do things we’ve been doing for 5,000 years.
ship and chemistry so good a cbs procedural centered around two old white men had no choice but to make them the main romance when that wasn't the plan at all
with no malice whatsoever to OP, some of you need to learn that more words aren't going to solve your problem
if you have something you need to express, write it down somewhere, get it out, then don't send it. tell yourself you can send it later and wait for the moment to pass
by doing this and revisiting it later, i learned that everything i wanted to say would have only made things worse, overloaded the other person, and caused them to pull away or not even respond to all the things anyway
sometimes, some of the things i wanted to say in the heat of the moment became useful later and i was able to go back and grab them! that was good. a lot of it never got said and the things i did get back after that moment showed me they didn't need to be said.
just because you feel it, doesn't mean it's real, and it doesn't mean anyone else needs to hear it. find someone who loves you and talk to them about the things you want to say to this person, get them straight in your own head. it will help deal with the urgency
i had disorganized attachment, which features both avoidant AND anxious. for possibly the first time in my life, i experience secure attachment now. the process of getting here was highly unpleasant, but you have to understand that you cannot control other people's behaviour, only your own
no-one is going to manage your emotions for you. you have to do it yourself
@GenvieveGrmhlde Right, if my girl ever told me that she wants me to touch her for less than an hour, I'd think she's mad at me or something.
Straight sex sounds so boring like you ain't supposed to just do in and out for hours