Grateful my mom taught me conflict resolution. A lot of people who fear conflict were never taught it by their parents. When the goal is understanding there’s nothing to win. It’s just a hard conversation. I’m not even viewing it through that lens of being “right”
Situationships are NOT for women like me. 😭 You not finna call me baby, sleep in my bed, act like my man, then tell me we just vibing. VIBE YOUR CONFUSED ASS SOMEWHERE ELSE.
I said we discussed EVERYTHING, including our very real flaws. Have any of the retarded men demonstrating bitterness in his place ever stopped to consider that, despite the connection, maybe we illuminated things about ourselves that the other understood was not desirable for them? LOL. We did in one day what many couples do over the span of a year or two. Saved ourselves wasting time in a potential relationship we knew would never last.
I met a man at the bar. I went home with him (I had NEVER went home with a stranger before, and never have again since). We didn’t have sex; we didn’t even make out. The next morning we talked ALL day about EVERYTHING, especially our inner selves. We were eerily similar by all metrics. It felt so comfortable being around him. We ordered in. He implored me to watch The Notebook (I hadn’t seen it yet, and it was one of his favorites). He cried at the end of the film. He took me home soon after, and we never spoke again. I hope he’s well.
Nobody talks about how CREEPY it is to catch somebody close to you looking at you with pure DISGUST when they think you don’t see them. basically giving you a dirty look That’s one of the most unsettling feelings ever…
I don’t think people understand that global warming doesn’t mean “no cold weather ever.” It means a warming planet destabilizes weather patterns, causing more extreme weather. This has been explained for decades and people still don’t get it.