@SeyeJamesonline@DrKalu_ With these high levels of manipulation and gaslighting and spreading lies to the outsiders that the man is financially abusive
@lovyPrimzy1 Would you trust someone who is hypocritical in their actions, absolutely Not! If your husband called you his cousin outside in public with reason for him to be seen single to secure attention from others...it would be the end of the marriage!
@maryawadata@mobola_ade Imagine your dearest sons are tricked by such women and you are told that those dearest grandchildren are not sired by your sons, how would you feel about it, let's not support destructive behavior as these. PEACE IS VERY EXPENSIVE WHEN YOU ARE ON THE RECEIVING END!
@mobola_ade@OJBlingz Against you. They will view you as a very selfish person who has no decorum to speak about issues but instead goes behind their husband's back to sire children out of wedlock. Men you rather know the truth now than later when you are too old cos such LIES ARE DESTRUCTIVE!
@mobola_ade@OJBlingz There is no reason as to why a woman does such a thing and it's justified. IF YOU FEEL YOU ARE NOT "HAPPY" IN YOUR MARRIAGE, AND NOTHING MUCH CAN BE DONE, LEAVE! Do not embarrass yourself and your family that you can get away with it. Your own children are going to turn...
@stylishnene The answers are and applies to both sexes. Poor upbringing, indiscipline, and failure of being content. When these three things appear among your partner, it's better you call off that relationship ASAP!
@joe_elizab35510@Ruky_Baby27 Which is sad cos that child one day will question you who his or her father is. That is why many who are conceived in those methods when they grow up, do look up who their father is.
@lovyPrimzy1 Primzy her actions were deliberate! This isn't a mistake . She chose to look at this man that way. We've seen many women do this type of thing of getting married for other things other than love. Why marry someone when you don't see him as a husband? Why waste everyone's time?
@OkaforACO@therealmaf_@EtimRaw Man of her past that might have made her look unattractive to him. Just to get the man and treat her as or better than what she was doing for her. Women keep sabotaging fellow women and this stems from envy due to over sharing what is happening in their relationships
@OkaforACO@therealmaf_@EtimRaw The man might have loved him Mr. Okafor but a woman with a mission can destroy everything so as to get what she wants. We've seen this play out a lot of times. But many don't want to listen thinking that we are being "negative". Her friend might have shared some things to the...
@Chikeluba_@therealmaf_@Black_Czar1 Yeah you can heal. By accepting that you shared too much and you had a hand in the destruction of your own relationship. And do better next time to keep secrets for yourself.
@rolandgavince@therealmaf_ The red flag was "I wish I had what you have" statement. But she ignores that critical statement thinking of it as just nothing
@fwBen_@therealmaf_@Black_Czar1 But some need to learn the hard way so as to understand that not everything you and your partner are doing should be shared be it good or bad. Not everyone wishes well for you. This constant sharing breeds envy
@therealmaf_ I tell women all the time, THOSE YOU TELL ABOUT YOUR BUSINESS WILL BE YOUR DOWNFALL! But they fail to understand. You gave her a whole plan of how to get him away from you and she executed it to a T. So this is your fault. Envy is the downfall of women. Control your lips ๐คซ๐คซ๐คซ
@softlynia_ It's simple. He doesn't find you attractive anymore. Since you said before it all was normal. So he ain't gay but not interested in you anymore!
@lovyPrimzy1 She should have stayed single and sought that high value man who matches her "status" instead of acting like this. It's so sad and pathetic at the same time. You want to be single, stay single no one is gonna judge u it's your damn life.
@lovyPrimzy1 First of all, WHY IS SHE MARRIED? she should have stayed single and did whatever she wanted. This feminist thinking of having the best in both worlds is the reason many women are to die single. I appreciate the husband to cut his losses sooner. If she felt ashamed of him...
@bjaustine@patola58@kenkenlewu Thank you!!! That's what I'm wondering. She must have conived with her ex lover to use this man for resources. Cos four children and you pretend that he's the father is an indication of her being a con woman
@LawalNiola@patola58@kenkenlewu The mere fact she did it not once nor twice but four times tells you exactly that she didn't bring her dissatisfaction to her husband in the open and decided to be this cruel to him.
@SeyeJamesonline@DrKalu_ Perhaps you haven't seen shameless women who ask for personal maintenance from the husband even when she's working and earning. Then you wonder what that money does