she was still dating him for 3 years which btw is her longest relationship, even longer than her marriage you can’t rewrite history just because it’s embarrassing for her
Rape is one of them hardest crimes to prove. If it isn’t reported immediately, there’s usually no way to prove that it happened unless you get a confession from the rapist. Which is why I hardly believe all these “false accusation” talks. She most likely just had no evidence.